# You're pissed at ME for something YOU did?! **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [April 25, 2004, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920 "2004-04-25T16:24:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![flamingbananas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f4b2a3/32.png) [@flamingbananas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flamingbananas)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2004, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/21 "2004-04-27T01:47:01Z")
Damn. Now I want to live with my parents until I find a sutiable SO. I don’t think I could live alone, with all the horror books I read. Every night I would think someone is going to attack me or something. I feel better when someone else is up and moving about. Now. A word of advice. MOVE NOW. This guy sounds like an idiot, and you don’t have to put up with living with idiots and their phyco girlfriends. Like the others have said, move in with a friend until you can find your own place, or just move in with a friend, period. And why would you share your computer with that guy? I can’t stand sharing this computer with my brother, and I (sometimes) like him! How can you share a computer with a guy that you don’t like? ---
**Author:** ![dnooman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/839c29/32.png) [@dnooman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dnooman)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2004, 5:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/22 "2004-04-27T05:19:02Z")
He bought it, I just “get to use it”. Now that I have a much better paying job I might be able to get a decent one for myself soon. ---
**Author:** ![MysteryFellow63427](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a88e4f/32.png) [@MysteryFellow63427](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MysteryFellow63427)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2004, 5:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/23 "2004-04-27T05:29:46Z")
Sweet jesus, I’m realizing how lucky I am that I’ve never had a bad roommate in my life… knock on wood ---
**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2004, 6:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/24 "2004-04-27T06:04:31Z")
Well, I wish you the best of luck at finding a new, more suitable roommate posthaste. I have only one question: > [@dnooman](#): > > Sorry for the length and lack of vitriol, it happened a week ago. I just had to expose this asinine behavior so that I didn’t steep in it. No, don’t trouble yourself about the length, or the relative mildness. But how much time has to go by before it counts as “steeping in it?” 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Rilchiam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2bfe46/32.png) [@Rilchiam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rilchiam)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2004, 9:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/25 "2004-04-27T09:59:11Z")
> [@Steelerphan](#): > > 1. You’re being dominated. he is intimidating you, and you haven’t shown that you will stand up for it. Are you afraid that if you do he’ll use the handgun? > > 2. He’s a druggie with a handgun. When he needs money for his next fix, and he’s all out and jonesing, how do you know you’re not going to wake up with the gun shoved up your nose and him holding you by the collar (or hair) demanding your money? That was **Cisco** ’s former roommate, not **dnooman** ’s current one. ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2004, 1:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/26 "2004-04-27T13:44:43Z")
> [@Blalron](#): > > \I understand why she’d do that. It’s bad manners to suddenly throw a temper tantrum and boot someone out on to the street. Actually, it’s bad manners to have your girlfriend move in with you without your roommate being 100% okay with it. It’s also bad manners to be the girlfriend moving into this situation without previous stipulation. **dnooman** was not the bad mannered one here. ---
**Author:** ![The\_Mad\_Hermit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b5ac83/32.png) [@The\_Mad\_Hermit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Mad_Hermit)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2004, 7:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/27 "2004-04-27T19:18:56Z")
> [@](#): > > That was **Cisco’s** former roommate, not **dnooman** ’s current one. Oops. I thought I was being careful- I swear I checked a couple of times… somehow I mistook **Cisco’s** post for a followup by\*\* dnooman\*\*. The OP’s roommate still sounds like a jerk. I’d kick him out unless he apologized for being such an ass and made reparations, or at least an attempt to smooth things over. ---
**Author:** ![dnooman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/839c29/32.png) [@dnooman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dnooman)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 1:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/28 "2004-04-28T01:32:12Z")
> [@Steelerphan](#): > > Oops. > > I thought I was being careful- I swear I checked a couple of times… somehow I mistook **Cisco’s** post for a followup by\*\* dnooman\*\*. > > The OP’s roommate still sounds like a jerk. I’d kick him out unless he apologized for being such an ass and made reparations, or at least an attempt to smooth things over. I never thought about trying to get _him_ to leave. Interesting proposition. Now I just need to find sombody that wants to live in a great neighborhood and pay cheap rent. That’s not nearly as daunting as the prospect of finding a new pad. I think I might actually try that. Thanks **Steelerphan**. Now I hope the Giants only beat the Steelers by a field goal, instead of a routing. 😉 (No, I’m not being sarcastic, and no, I’m not going to try to get him to move out by enraging him. I at least know _that_ much.) ---
**Author:** ![Tenar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/35a633/32.png) [@Tenar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tenar)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 2:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/29 "2004-04-28T02:36:17Z")
> [@dnooman](#): > > He’s 31, a few years older than me. He still likes 18year old girls though. :rolleyes: > > Racist, pervert, sociopath, why in God’s name am I here? I don’t know enough to say whether he’s a sociopath or not, but he sure does sound like a borderline personality. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Dante](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dante/32/9673_2.png) [@Dante](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dante)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/30 "2004-04-28T04:34:14Z")
> [@dnooman](#): > > I’m not going to try to get him to move out by enraging him. How about just [confusing](http://www.allowe.com/Humor/Book/How%20To%20Drive%20Your%20Roommate%20Crazy.htm) the hell out of him? ---
**Author:** ![Scuba\_Ben](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Scuba\_Ben](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scuba_Ben)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 1:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/31 "2004-04-28T13:38:52Z")
Whose name is on the lease? If it’s your name alone, you can tell him to get out, and make it stick. Depending, of course, on his written sub-lease with you. If it’s his name alone, your options depend on your written sub-lease with him. If it’s both of you, you’d have to break the lease. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![dnooman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/839c29/32.png) [@dnooman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dnooman)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 10:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/32 "2004-04-28T22:56:17Z")
We’re both on it. The initial term is up, now we’re going on a month to month basis. I need to find my copy of that lease. ---
**Author:** ![MacTech](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c0e974/32.png) [@MacTech](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MacTech)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2004, 11:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920/33 "2004-04-28T23:07:00Z")
> [@dnooman](#): > > I’m 'bout ready to have a buch of ni\*\*as sent over to your house". > > Did I over-react by asking my roommate to choose her or me? Fuck no. There’s the full story _now_ you can tell me what a dick I am. Well, if she’s ready to have a bunch of Ninjas sent over to your house, you might want to be careful… dunno why the word Ninja was censored, is it bad luck to say it? 😉 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/youre-pissed-at-me-for-something-you-did/241920.md?page=1)