# Zoe has left the building

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 13, 2017, 9:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525 "2017-08-13T09:39:35Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Starving\_Artist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aeb1de/32.png) [@Starving\_Artist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Starving_Artist)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 6:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/41 "2017-08-13T18:30:36Z")

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Thanks for the heads up on my PM situation, **Zeldar**. It looks like housecleaning is indeed in order. 🙂 Thanks for thinking of me, I appreciate your efforts to let me know. And you’re very welcome for my words on Peg. She was a fine lady.

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 6:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/42 "2017-08-13T18:35:22Z")

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My condolences on your loss. Peg sounds like a wonderful person.

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**Author:** ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/43 "2017-08-13T19:07:39Z")

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I’m so very sorry, **Zeldar.**

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**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/44 "2017-08-13T19:09:14Z")

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Damn it. I was thinking about her last week. I used to have a lot of problems and she always stood up for me. This sucks.

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**Author:** ![Omega\_Glory](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/7c8e57/32.png) [@Omega\_Glory](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omega_Glory)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 7:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/45 "2017-08-13T19:33:58Z")

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I’m sorry for your loss. I remember her posts and how passionately she stood up for her beliefs.

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**Author:** ![Zeldar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/b77776/32.png) [@Zeldar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zeldar)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 7:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/46 "2017-08-13T19:54:31Z")

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What’s really striking me in this outpouring of remembrances is how old (in terms of membership here) these posts are proving to be. Some relative newcomers, but most of us are old enough to remember when SDMB was “cutting edge” chat space. The glimmer may have faded some by comparison with newer toys and trinkets. But we old-timers (if I may dub myself one of you – 2003) can remember when we had to do manually what there are apps to do now. It’s heartening to be flooded with all these comments from the Old Guard!

Bless you all!

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 8:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/47 "2017-08-13T20:10:39Z")

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I’m sorry that I can’t say I remember interacting with **Zoe** , but any Doper’s loss is bad. I’m so sorry for your loss **Zeldar**. Is there anything we can do besides condolences?

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/48 "2017-08-13T20:17:07Z")

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May your good memories be of some comfort to you in your time of grief.

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**Author:** ![ratatoskK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ratatoskk/32/2987_2.png) [@ratatoskK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ratatoskK)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/49 "2017-08-13T21:20:42Z")

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I’m so sorry that Zoe is gone. My condolences to you.

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**Author:** ![not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/not_what_you_d_expect/32/3246_2.png) [@not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/not_what_you_d_expect)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 9:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/50 "2017-08-13T21:33:30Z")

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Zeldar, you have my sympathies. May your memories bring you comfort and may Zoe rest in peace.

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**Author:** ![kambuckta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kambuckta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kambuckta)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 10:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/51 "2017-08-13T22:29:25Z")

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Best wishes to you Zeldar, and may the memories of Zoe be sweet.

kam

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**Author:** ![Clothahump](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/51bf81/32.png) [@Clothahump](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Clothahump)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 11:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/52 "2017-08-13T23:04:09Z")

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> [@Zeldar](#):
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> My wife of 31 years, known here as **Zoe** , died Tuesday August 8 2017 at Alive Hospice in Nashville ( [https://www.alivehospice.org/](https://www.alivehospice.org/) ) after a long battle with lung cancer.

My condolences, Z.

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**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 11:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/53 "2017-08-13T23:09:56Z")

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I am sorry for your troubles.

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**Author:** ![ZipperJJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zipperjj/32/211_2.png) [@ZipperJJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZipperJJ)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 11:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/54 "2017-08-13T23:14:12Z")

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My condolences, Zeldar. I hope that you are able to find peace with your loss.

Thank you for that wonderful write up on your experiences with Zoe, monstro.

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**Author:** ![raventhief](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/raventhief/32/4_2.png) [@raventhief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/raventhief)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 11:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/55 "2017-08-13T23:30:17Z")

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I am so sorry for your loss.

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**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 11:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/56 "2017-08-13T23:47:36Z")

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☹

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**Author:** ![kayT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayt/32/3633_2.png) [@kayT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayT)\
**Post date:** [August 13, 2017, 11:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/57 "2017-08-13T23:57:12Z")

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I have to say that whenever I saw **Zoe’s** name in a thread I had to look to see what she had to say. Didn’t always agree but she was usually on topic, interesting and literate. The board is going to be (and has been) poorer without her voice. Sympathy to you and yours, **Zeldar**.

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**Author:** ![Duckster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/duckster/32/1244_2.png) [@Duckster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duckster)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2017, 12:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/58 "2017-08-14T00:46:25Z")

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My condolences, **Zeldar**.

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**Author:** ![mhendo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mhendo/32/3159_2.png) [@mhendo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mhendo)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2017, 1:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/59 "2017-08-14T01:04:15Z")

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I remember **Zoe** well. We crossed swords on occasion, but i agreed with her far more often than not, and she was a valued and valuable member of the boards.

I’m very sorry for your loss, **Zeldar**. I never knew that the two of you were married.

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**Author:** ![Mollie\_Magill](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mollie_magill/32/20882_2.png) [@Mollie\_Magill](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mollie_Magill)\
**Post date:** [August 14, 2017, 1:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/zoe-has-left-the-building/793525/60 "2017-08-14T13:59:24Z")

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I am so sorry to learn of your (and the board’s) loss. I cannot imagine what you are going through. You and **Zoe** were helpful to me when we relocated to Nashville. Thank you.

I hope I speak for the other locals when I say that if there is anything we can do for you to let us know.

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