Former elder abuse social worker checking in.
Congratulations!
It’s a dirty job but somebody has to do it.
Seriously, the victims of family violence and neglect, and families that are the victims of administrative heavy-handedness, need hard-working clear-thinking people who are willing to go into battle on their behalf. You don’t win them all but it’s a genuine good work when you do, most of the time, something of which you can feel quite proud. That’s not the dirty part. The dirty part, which you need to acknowledge, accept, and cope with emotionally and intellectually before you go in if you aren’t gonna burn out in 2 years, is that the policies and applicable laws victimize people at least as often as they protect people.
And…well, at some point in your life you’ve seen the “swamp” poster, right? “It is our goal to address the needs of our clientele, advocate on their behalf, streamline the workflow, and see each task to its rightful conclusion. It is important at all times to remain focused on the goal. However…when you’re up to your ass in alligators, it is hard to remember that your original task was to drain the swamp”.
Family law, including custody, protection issues, testimony issues, financial issues, the very definition of “family”, and a host of other things, is going to be what you go up against at least as often as it’s what you rely on to help people and to intervene and protect people. And the procedural regulations, policies, and practices of your own agency will probably fall into that category as well. This can demoralize you if you aren’t expecting it from the outset. (Yes, some social problems are officially labeled as “The Good Guys”). Many are the discouraged social workers who drop out after deciding, a few years in, that their own organization and the systems it connects to are the real swamp that is breeding the alligators they get paid to go wrestle with in the mud.
My supervisor used to say: “Imagine you’re in a boat and you keep coming across drowning babies in the river. After rescuing a couple, you realize someone upstream is pitching babies into the river. Well, someone has to keep rescuing babies, even while some folks run along the shoreline to get to the bridge and stop whoever is tossing babies over the side, because otherwise they’ll continue to drown in the mean time.” The ones who go after the evil one tossing babies into the river is the policy wonk, and ultimately the politician. The ones who save as many babies as they can, here and now, those are the case workers, the ones who have actual clients."
So…be brave, be knowledgably skeptical and appropriately cynical about systems and organizations, care about your clients, and do what you can do. Don’t underestimate the swamp.