I was born and raised in California, and I’ve never heard a native call it ‘Cali’. (Except for one guy in WA, who was a native but spent a lot of time in WA.) I call Southern California ‘Southern California’ or ‘SoCal’, Northern California ‘Northern California’, and California ‘California’.
I grew up in LA, lived there for almost thirty years, and never heard anyone refer to California as “Cali” until a few years after I moved away, by someone who claimed to be native.
I do (especially because it annoys my roommate who grew up in Cali), but it feels like something I specifically picked up somewhere- though I can’t remember from what.
I once heard someone say he had recently visited Cali. I thought he was referring to the city in Columbia and asked him all about it, and was confused by the subsequent conversation.
My mom’s from LA. She has never called California anything but California.
I’ve never heard someone from Southern CA say it, but I have heard a few Northern CA people say it. That said, I mostly hear it from non natives who think they are being cool.
I will occasionally shorten it that way when I write in my blog about how much I like living in this state.
But as Campion said, my most distinguishable non-native characteristic is referring to highways as “Route [insert]”-Route 110 or Route 405 or whatever. As soon as I say something like “well I take the metro from Fillmore but sometimes I drive down Route 110 to park at Avenue 26” I usually get the “YOU’RE NOT FROM AROUND HERE ARE YOU???”
I fully intend to continue misidentifying highways in this manner, refusing to wear a parka and mittens when the temperature dips below 68, wearing black/grey/plum and other severe colours, layering with sweaters in the middle of summer, talking ecstactically to people about their fruit trees, saying “wicked [insert]” instead of “hella” and otherwise bumbling about as an East Coaster. I’m never going to be a Native so I have no intention of attempting it.