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A question to C K Dexter Haven on the art of the insult in GD
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I placed this here in GD and not The Pit because it is a serious question that I'd like to handle seriously, not fliply. And it seems there is a debate as to what does and does not constitute a violation of the GD rules. In this thread you were kind enough to weigh in on an accusation that I made against tomndebb concerning an insult. I'll post what you offered and then ask my question. Quote:
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Also, I don't see where something along the lines of "appears to have said" (emphasis mine) is present or relevant. That said, based on the explanation you provided, which of these would be allowed? Which worthy of a warning or admonishment? And why? Please note that ALL of them adhere to the distinction you made above: they all focus the comment on what has been said, not who said it. 1) What you said is stupid. 2) Everything you have said is stupid. 3) Everything you say is stupid. 4) The stuff coming out of your mouth is completely asinine. 5) The stuff you say is completely asinine. 6) I am hardly going to report you for being an incompetent moderator who lies and distorts what has been said. I have better things to do. 7) I'm not going to report you for the lies, distortions and stupidity that you type. It would do no good. 8) I won't comment on the dumbfuck posts you continue to spawn. 9) Why do you keep spewing these lies and stupidity? Your posts in this thread imply a severe lack of education and gross stupidity. 10) That is the dumbest, most dishonest thing I have ever read on these boards. 11) I'm hardly going to respond to a poster that types such stupid shit. 12) You have just typed the dumbest thing I have ever seen. 13) That's the kind of post I'd expect from a poster that consistently posts stupid shit. Again, they all point to what has been said. So, are these all allowed in GD? Please be specific, because your explanation will doubt be used to artfully craft insults in the future. Perhaps even by a Moderator. |
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Moderator's Note: The BBQ Pit is the place for all "complaints and other discussion regarding administration of the SDMB" (which is what this thread clearly is).
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Dear moderators: if you don't mind, could you please define just how much of a hostile, hectoring jerk I can can get away with being in GD without getting myself banned? Thanks in advance.
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Whaaaaa! Tom's a meanie and wears jackboots!
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I saw this thread before:
Doper: discusses “A” OP: mentions “A” was caused by “B” (with an aside that mentions “Y”) Doper: “B” was not a correct assumption, “Y” was already discussed and dismissed before. OP: You are insulting for bringing “Y” into the discussion! 4 pages of Argumentum ad Nauseam follows to demonstrate what an insult that was. It does not matter what “Y” was, the faith of the nation hangs in denouncing the assumed insult! “A” is ignored, Mission Accomplished!
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Ah, now that you've finally arrived in the pit in connection with the thread about the asswhuping of the Republicans ("SDMB Conservatives: Go Reclaim Your Party"), I can tell you what I think of your personal attacks in GD.
You are a whining, pathetic little puss. So you're whimpering that the Republicans took it up the keister? Boo fucking hoo. Why don't you take a break and quit flailing all over the boards? All you are doing with your extended temper tantrum is solidifying the impression that you are a major league asshole, and a moronic one at that. |
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And *I* think that this is an excellent illustration of the kind of thing that would violate the rules of Great Debates.
But not the Pit. I hope you see the difference, magellan01? |
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Either that, or I'll have to conclude you're simply lying. You'll forgive me that I'm not shocked. Quote:
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Schmuck. Oops. Make that "Schmuck and liar." |
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If I dood it, I get a whippin'...
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I'm curious about the name-calling that you used to address Tom in GD. That seemed really beneath you. It made you seem malicious even though the names themselves were kind of silly. You are better than this. |
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Well obviously, some of these will depend on context, but righty-o:
1) What you said is stupid. -- Critique. Allowed (assuming you follow it with an explication of course) 2) Everything you have said is stupid. -- Blatant dismissal of anything you don't agree with. Probably allowed, but essentially it just shows that you've no desire to actually debate anything 3) Everything you say is stupid. -- Insult. Not allowed 4) The stuff coming out of your mouth is completely asinine. Insult 5) The stuff you say is completely asinine. Depends on context. Could be the same as #1 or #3 6) I am hardly going to report you for being an incompetent moderator who lies and distorts what has been said. I have better things to do. -- Pointless. Amuses other dopers at your expense, so allowed to sit 7) I'm not going to report you for the lies, distortions and stupidity that you type. It would do no good. -- Insult. 8) I won't comment on the dumbfuck posts you continue to spawn. -- Insult 9) Why do you keep spewing these lies and stupidity? Your posts in this thread imply a severe lack of education and gross stupidity. -- Insult that also works like #2, so a double whammy 10) That is the dumbest, most dishonest thing I have ever read on these boards. -- Critique. Allowed (assuming explication) 11) I'm hardly going to respond to a poster that types such stupid shit. -- Same as #2 12) You have just typed the dumbest thing I have ever seen. -- Meh. Same as #6 13) That's the kind of post I'd expect from a poster that consistently posts stupid shit. -- Insult. Compounded by the same issues as #2 Live long and prosper. |
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I am not a GD moderator, nor do I pretend to be, nor do I want to be. Magellan01 pulled me in because he was voicing a complaint to the admins about tomndebb, who is a GD moderator. I knew that TubaDiva is gone this weekend, I wasn't sure of other Admin availability, so I thought I ought to respond quickly rather than let things fester.
I will call this thread to the attention of the GD moderators, who can comment on the rules of Great Debates as they enforce them. I made my call based on my understanding of the general rules for all forums: FAQ: Rules for Posting at the Straight Dope Message Boards, Post #10. Plus my experiences with formal debate rules, which are doubtless a trifle dated. Last edited by C K Dexter Haven; 11-12-2006 at 07:38 AM. |
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Rigidity and ossification are supposed to be qualities that improve the SDMB experience? Because that's where hard-and-fast policies such as you are insisting be implemented tend to lead.
In the absence of such policies, moderators have a responsibility and the authority to exercise judgement. That strikes me as a good thing. If the responsibility is shirked, and the authority abused, a member is free to have the matter looked into by the admins. Rank-and-file members also bear some responsibility, to be respectful of the space, and of fellow members. Really, it's not that difficult to intuit this knowledge about the board and its culture. GD just isn't the place to have the conversation about it. |
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There are a lot of very stupid people saying very stupid things in GQ these days. Add to that a handful of poseurs and pretenders. I think we should lift the ‘no insults’ rule for a while and clean the fuckin’ place up.
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And you won't find any warnings or admonishments, because unlike you, I don't run to the moderators crying that my feelings are hurt. I take it up with the person directly. I've never once complained about another poster to a moderator; a whimpering little fuckwit like yourself wouldn't come close to making me end that trend. |
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And if you had heeded my sage advice and paid attention, you would have been able to see that I attempted to take it up with the person directly. He was ignoring the specific question, so I went to the Administrators. Kinda logical, actually. When you think another poster has flouted the rules you can usually count on a Mod to see it. But if a you think a Mod has flouted the rules and does not address it when you bring it up, going up the ladder is the logical thiing to do. Hope that helps, (genius or moron—you pick). |
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How about allusions to the sanity of a poster? Is it permissable to call someone crazy, suggest they start/stop taking medication or that they belong in a mental institution? I recall one thread that resulted in an email exchange with a moderator that concluded these were permissable.
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I like it when moderators whack idiots up the side of the head. It makes the board more pleasant for the rest of us without over usage of the ban-stick. |
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Do you mean something like that? You said all that before tomndebb even entered the thread, IIRC. Now you are fucking whining because you believed someone attacked you and not your post? Pathetic. You are a sad little puss of a man. |
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Hentor,
You niggling little niggler, you. Yes I made a mistake typing "insults" instead of "attacks". Guilty as charged. My apologies, as I did put the word in quotes. Now, if you think that changes the content of my post, whew! You're dumberer than I thought. Advice: Pay attenion. Strong advice: C'mon, pay fucking attention. Strong advice with personal attack (that one you seem to so despise): C'mon, pay fucking attention, genius. Choose one, two, or all three! |
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Why can't we all just get a bong?
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Now if you're reading this, just dart your eyes back up to the previous paragraph and read it again. Get it now? On preview: Quote:
), then you come in here salivating, like youse gonna kicks yourself some butt, and this is what you bring? Well, good. (Yawn) The fewer letters I have to type for your consumption sans comprehension the better.
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Let me break it down for ya: tomndebb = good moderator, widely respected by many dopers. magellan01 = whiny little fuckwit, generally laughed at by many dopers. In other breaking news, the Sun is expected to rise in the east again tommorrow. |
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I think magellan actually has something of a point on this (please hold off the tar and feathers).
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Why do I keep looking at this thread? "Avoid the Pit," I say to myself, over and over. |
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And, as serious discussion of issues of this sort is not common in the Pit, it is unfortunate that the thread was moved here. magellan01 has a legitimate point. To move it to the Pit is merely to invite (tacitly, at least) diversion of the thread into a series of personal attacks against the OP. A way, IOW, of avoiding the question of tomndebb's behavior in GD, whether advertent or not. Regards, Shodan |
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Crap, Shodan's agreeing with me. You do realise any credibility I once had is now shot, right?
Just as a general point, I don't think the board is best served by putting all critique of Mods or the board itself in the Pit. Certainly for the more insult-filled attacks on board speed, or if someone just wants to mock a Mod - but by making even those OPs which question a Mod's actions in a civil way be Pitted, it does invite general mocking and insulting from all concerned (and from those not). If threads such as these were allowed in ATMB then they'd be both shorter and probably end up with less ill-feeling on all sides, as well as stopping the random sniping that controversial posters recieve (even when it's deserved, it's pretty pointless). |
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I have a hard time understanding how the words "incompetant debater who distorts what has been posted" attacks magellan's arguments and not magellan himself. |
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Bit of grey there. A disparaging remark centered on how one conducts a debate has some legitimacy. "That was an asshole thing to say" is phrased on the margins of acceptability, while "you are an asshole" is not. We have mods like we have traffic cops, we expect them to bust the utterly egregious, but not to convene a conclave of scholars to parse meaning. Kind of like we expect cops to bust someone slamming down the road at 110 mph but to shrug off 56 or 57 mph.
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I hope that helps. Thanks for your valuable contribution. You may now go back to your nice simple world: "magellan01, baaad. tomndebb goooood." |
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