I was reading a discussion on another website about sexual assault, and I was floored by the prevalence of stories where people - especially women - had been molested as children, almost always by a stepfather or their mother’s boyfriend. I am just wondering why this occurs. It doesn’t make a lot of sense to me. I put it in Great Debates because I know it’s an emotionally-charged question that does not have one clear factual answer. Far from.
These are the theses I’ve come across:
*Rape is about power, not sex.
Okay, so why do people assert power by sexually abusing children? Adults already have power over children because they are authority figures.
*Rape happens because alcoholism and other drug abuse make people violent.
This still doesn’t explain why people sexually abuse children rather than breaking glasses.
*Rape happens because rapists want sexual gratification.
But why, especially if you’re married or dating a woman, would you try to get more gratification by forcing her children into unwanted activities? Abused kids are not consenting and they’re certainly not going to try to give their rapists pleasure. I find it hard to believe that the male erection is such a powerful force that it turns a man into a brainless, slobbering beast who will have intercourse with anything he sees.
*Rape happens because some people are just nasty and enjoy inflicting pain on easy targets.
I’m starting to think this is the only solution. But is this really true about that many people? I thought sociopathy was relatively rare.
So I’m at a loss.