I will admit I am not the manliest man out there, but I don’t need tissues for Hallmark commercials. However, there are some movies that make me tear up where other guys wouldn’t. While some might cost me a “Man Card,” some of them I think are a free pass. Off the top of my head:
Old Yeller - If you’ve ever had a dog this is a no brainer.
Lion King - Maybe it’s because I was younger when I saw it, but Simba trying to “wake up” Mufasa: “Dad come on, you gotta get up!”
Schindler’s List - Shouldn’t need to explain
Saving Private Ryan - Ditto
The Notebook - First admit that you saw it, then admit you at least got a lump in your throat.
Movies where it might just be me:
Up - The beginning, at least
Titanic - Couldn’t care less about Leo and Kate, but that one old couple in bed as it sinks. . .
Moulin Rouge - I don’t know why, it just makes me tear up.
So what other movies do guys get a pass on, and which ones make other guys cry?
I think the generic answer is sports movies and war movies, and so far this thread bears that out. Sorry, OP, but if there’s ever going to be an answer to this question, it’s not going to include Moulin Rouge and Titanic. Those are chick flicks. Titanic in particular became a hit because early-teen girls got obsessed with it.
And movies about the Old Man, maybe. I know a goodly number of guys who were really moved by Big Fish. I was, and so was my dad.
I’ve seen all those movies but The Notebook, and cried at exactly zero of them (to be fair, I might have cried at Titanic, but only because it was so monumentally shitty or because I was laughing so hard at the horrible dialogue).
Movies that have made me tear up:
Bicycle Thieves
Ikiru
Make Way for Tomorrow
Awakenings
Other films where I have been guilty of tearing up:
Life is Beautiful - everyone gets a pass for this one
Braveheart - I’m Scottish
Whale Music - long story
Snoopy Come Home - since a was a kid, and still do.
Warning: The movie isn’t just sad, it is earthquake rattling devastating. It is a documentary. Everyone and everything in it is real and what happens is so tragic…there are no words in the human language to describe my feelings after seeing it.