My wife is 67 and at an age when sex is getting more difficult to cause her to orgasm.
Years ago a friend of mine (who passed away since) who was in the sex-toys business, gave me a clitoral stimulation ring, which at that time I didn’t think to be needed, and I just got rid of it… Now I regret I did that… It was a very simple piece of tubber, a penile ring with an extension that’s suppose to rub against the clitoris to stimulating it during intercourse. I’m trying to find that little bugger, but all I find online are those battery-operated toys… Does anybody know what I’m looking for and where to get it?..
Yes, but they’re all battery-operated, and I’m looking for a much simpler one, no vibrations, no batteries, just the simple shape that should do the job…
You realize turning on the motor isn’t mandatory, right? And that it’s not going to easier for her to achieve orgasm, so you may want/need the extra stimulation in the not-so-distant future? Besides, sometimes a little unnecessary extra stimulation is just plain fun.
The “simple thing” in terms of being able to find one, is the Trojan one, since they sell them at Walgreens and CVS. But if you don’t want that, than any sex toy shop will have a non-vibrating one.
They are pretty much gag gifts. Almost entirely useless in the act of sex. Think about it. The ring is at the base of your cock. Its barely going to touch her clit while you are thrusting. They are mostly squishy things they can’t feel unless you get the vibe one and even those don’t do much to ädd to the stimulation. They look asinine to top it off. We tried the free vibrating one we got with some dildos we ordered.
Forgive me, but why not just use your hand to stimulate her clit while you’re penetrating her? You sit up right on your knees, she lays back, puts her legs around your hips, and angles up a little bit. You should be able to thrust and use your hands without much issue at all.
Also, yeah, someone in here is doing it wrong. The rings can be great. Or you can use a regular vibe in the above scenario, too.