I had a somewhat similar experience to the OP’s - I had eclampsia, magnesium drip for a few days, then I had a two-week long migraine from the seizure and high blood pressure after being discharged, then after that migraine went away, it was like my son was making up for lost time and wouldn’t let me put him down. To make matters worse, the complications after I had eclampsia made nursing difficult and I didn’t realize my son wasn’t getting enough to eat until his two-week appointment.
That said, I would definitely:
-fourth the sling recommendation
-and the swaddling recommendation
-urge you not to feel guilty if you’re bed sharing safely and it’s working for you (as my pediatrician (who recommended bedsharing) once said, “Both you and the baby have to sleep, and the baby didn’t read What to Expect books.”)
-I agree that it’s ok for a baby to fuss for a bit, but if she’s really miserable and you need a break, hand off the little one to your spouse or someone else for some sanity; she very well may cry, but better she cry in the arms of a well-meaning, loving adult than alone
Another thing to keep in mind, too - your baby was very small when she was born. It’s possible that she’s trying to catch up on eating, having trouble regulating her body temperature or otherwise still kind of on the immature side.
I know everyone tells you how much you’ll love being with your baby every single moment when they’re first born, but suddenly having another creature attached to you every second of the day can be exhausting and frustrating, especially with such a hard birth and a needy baby. Feed her on demand, try to help her get to sleep and try not to go crazy. And post here if you’re feeling frazzled. Or if your baby manages to poop across the room, because I for one, love a good poop story.