I think you’re really good looking in the first pic, because you’ve got a nice face and a hat on. I happen to be a person (hetero female) who can’t hang with the straight-razor-shaved head.
Your muscle pics…eh. I do like to look at a nicely defined body but once you see the competitive pose it’s all downhill from there.
I like the first pic in the second row from the bottom. Side view of you in a wifebeater. You look great there - great muscles, great tattoos, and the shot makes you look like you’ve got hair.
Wheelchair? I dunno…I would want to date you based on personality first, physical ability second.
Geez man, when others do it it’s ok but if I do it I’m “clearly extremely taken with myself” and only “fishing for compliments”? :dubious:
Like I said, I’d like some feedback on what the Dopers find attractive, given that there has been so much discussion on the matter as of late. And to add to this, I have my wheelchair, which I would like opinions on as to whether/how much it may/may not detract from one’s overall sexual attractiveness.
Jamie
Your chief hobby is to get on stage in front of people slathered in baby oil to be judged on how good you look. You don’t see the difference from the other posters?
Heh. Okay, admittedly 90% of my reason for posting that was to amuse myself, but seriously, you look like an average dude to me, except in those body building pictures which honestly creeped me the fuck out. The greased-up brown white guy on roids look does little for me.
The above would apply to ANYONE who was obviously good-looking, who posted a thread like this. Usually, the OP in these threads are average looking people, who seem insecure. You are obviously neither, based on your previous threads, and the pictures in this OP.
It seems to me that you want information about how women react to guys in wheelchairs. I don’t think you are going to get that here–most people don’t know, frankly, until the situation occurs to them.
You will find some relevant articles at the UAB SCI education site, which is a pretty damn useful site for people who have an SCI. http://www.spinalcord.uab.edu Check out “Psychosocial” then “family and relationships”
FTR, I wouldn’t date you, but it wouldn’t be the injury, but the bodybuilding. I find those sorts of muscles really, really unappealing.
Guess I forgot to comment on the wheels as part of the package.
Speaking hypothetically, I see the chair as basically a non-issue, although I suppose it would render moot the question “Your place, or mine?” (Accessibility issues.)
