My wife is currently 35 weeks pregnant with our first child. Throughout the pregnancy, she has been concerned – sometimes even frightened – over the many unfamiliar things that have been happening to her body. I assume this is not an uncommon emotional reaction to pregnancy – especially a first pregnancy.
To make a long story short, my wife was treated rudely today on the phone when she called her woman’s health clinic to get advice on how she can safely deal with some severe sinus problems. Today, after a bout of sneezing, my wife saw spots. This frightened my wife, so she called the clinic.
The nurse my wife spoke to:
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identified herself as “A nurse” when my wife asked to speak to her doctor’s nurse. This nurse explicitly refused to identify herself by name when my wife asked.
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remarked to my wife that “she had called the clinic several times recently” as if that were somehow relevant to my wife’s symptoms today. The implication seems to be that my wife struck the nurse as a hypochondriac.
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made a point of telling my wife that “no doctors were there today”. This is a patent lie – the doctors at this clinic regularly keep Friday appointments. Even if her doctor was called to the Labor & Delivery ward, it’s unlikely ALL of them were. Therefore, the nurse’s comment seems like it was meant to keep my wife from making an inconvenient impromptu appointment (as my wife had done the previous week due to painful colitis symptoms).
As far as I’m concerned --admittedly, getting this info from my wife second-hand – the nurse she spoke with acted deplorably. What the heck was she doing minimizing and belittling my wife’s complaint? A little beside manner, please?
What I’m wondering is how best to lodge a complaint? I’ve already called another branch of this clinic to get the name of someone who can accept a complaint. I was given the name of an office manager at the main clinic. Um … somehow, that doesn’t seem right.
So far, I’m dealing anonymously, because my wife fears she will get compromised care if it’s known we’ve complained against the clinic. But once the baby’s born, the gloves will come off.
What’s a good course of action here? I’d like to complain at a level higher than the clinic – perhaps a state board of Nursing or board of Medicine? Is there such a thing as a “medical audit” where these nurses would have state examiners watching their every move for a period of time to ensure that they were properly caring for their patients?
What can we do?