Well another girl fell in love with me over the internet. Not that she used so many words, but she did say only 2 people in the world made her feel a special feeling, the first one was her ex-fiance and guess who the second one was/is. It might not have been necessarily a bad thing, but after a week of us talking over the phone (which is one step up from IM, but still…) I finally saw her on the webcam and found her too chubby and unactractive. I told her this immediatelly. She all but started crying.
Sigh. That’s basicallly it. After that moment, we must have talked for almost an hour (yeah, I probably should have ended right there, but I she wanted to talk and I wanted to try to make her feel better… I’m sure lots of guys would like her… just not me… and I don’t know, we might be friends…). This was last night, now it’s 1pm locally and she’s beeped me (I don’t know what you call it when you call and let the cell phone ring just one time) 30+ times, meaning she was thinking of me.
I told her I would still meet her, but now I’m not sure it’s the best thing for her. I wouldn’t mind talking to her, but I think she should just let it go…
I don’t really remember breaking up with a woman, just so you know I’m not used to this. I would never in a million years call this ‘breaking up’, either, but her feelings seem to be close to that.
Also, this post is my way of saying ‘Hi!’ to all the people who read my previous story to let them know (a bit of) how I’m doing. Not very well, apparently. BTW, both the girls in that previous post are still ‘work in progress’ (don’t give me that look, I just meant to say I haven’t seen either - not my choice - and have no ideia what is going to happen).
Internet dating is turning out to be very complicated for me. The real life kind, with all its atribulations, is much more fun and healthy!
Oh and just in case you didn’t understand the (main) point of this post, It’s this: I want you to tell me how I should handle this girl.