Ok, I’ll riff on this a bit … not necessarily dads, but just parents …
Both my parents were born in Poland; mom on a farm, dad in a skiing village. Both regarded dogs kind of as, well, very ancillary characters in the household. Like, sleep outside, you have a house there, you have a job to do, that kind of stuff. So, about a year and a half after I got married, we adopted a pit bull from the local animal shelter I had been volunteering at. My folks, especially my mom, was like “why the fuck are you getting a dog? Why don’t you have a baby?” and that kind of shit. (I’m exaggerating a bit, but that was the message.) My dad was malleable, but my mom really grew up with dogs as little more than just another farm animal. She didn’t really quite understand the “American” fondness for pets, and treating them as a family member, basically.
So, six months later, my wife and I go off to India for three weeks for half-work, half-play. Parents volunteer to take care of the pit bull. I come back, and next thing I know, the dog is sleeping in their bed–something I would have bet my life against ever happeneing–my mom is hand-feeding him open-faced sandwiches with cream cheese and ham for breakfast, and is giving me an itinerary of his moods throughout the weeks we were gone, and how he missed us, etc., etc. I’m like, who is this woman?
He is still alive, about to reach nine years, and my mom has finally retired and is asking us to help in finding a dog for them. So we’ve done our job. I was over there this afternoon, and next to the pictures of all their granddaughters, they have a couple of pictures of Zuk, our dog.
Pets, I mean “companion animals” are wonderful.