Dueling was illegal in Germany already, so the began to do “American duels”. Two people would have a duel, but draw lots instead of use weapons. Loser kills himself within an agreed amount of time.
Part of the point of duelling was not one of the combatants dying but both combatants showing that they were prepared to. Combats with swords were often to first blood; those with pistols often deliberately missed. Honour was satisfied simply by the other guy showing up. But you never knew until the day.
**Losing things is frustrating, but I once knew a guy who lost something really important and it ended up making him better at his job. What’d he lose and how did losing it help him in his job?
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Does not having a limb help him fit into places he could otherwise not fit?
Is it right arm? Left arm? Right leg? Left leg?
Was the one missing the dominant limb? (e.g. left arm for left-handed person)
(Really satisfying answer to the previous one, BTW.)