Limits don’t have to explain it as a satisfying concrete or metaphysical answer. We don’t have to get “comfortable” with it in that sense at all. The notion of limits is simply an idea that is consistent with itself; from that, we can then hang subsequent consistent ideas from it.
Instead of asking “limits” to “explain” or “understand” infinity. We only ask that limits be a usable tool for “working with” infinity. This is much more reasonable goal!
As a comparison, consider something as basic as a line mathematics.
Most of us just “accept” this mathematical idea of a “line” without giving it a lot of thought. But what exactly is a line? Can we construct it?
Is a piece of string drawn pull tight like a guitar string a “line”? No, that doesn’t meet the definition of a line. How about a thin laser beam? Nope. Even a line that is the width of 1 electron is not a true “line” in the the mathematical sense. A mathematical line has zero width.
If we say a line is is a set of infinite points with zero width, how can we even create statements such as “2 parallel lines never meet” … the non-mathematical mind can retort, “well sure, 2 of impossible and incomprehensible items of zero width never meet, duh!” Imagine a inquisitive child trying to drill down this line of reasoning to its very end. You must explain that it’s not possible to “think” of lines like that because it leads to writing English sentences that are meaningless.
If we can’t even construct lines, how do we comprehend it on some satisfying metaphysical sense? We don’t. A line is simply an idea we work with. (Same as limits.)
Another example… on a piece of paper, we can write the number 1 x 10[sup]81[/sup] which is a number larger than the number of atoms in the universe. This number is incomprehensible.
Even with that difficulty, how can we claim: (1 x 10[sup]81[/sup] + 1) > (1 x 10[sup]81[/sup])
It’s only the rules of addition that says that’s statement is true. We can’t arrange a pile of 1 x 10[sup]81[/sup] apples (or atoms) and visually see that one heap is obviously 1 bigger than the other.
If we can accept mathematical definitions of “lines” and rules of addition on incomprehensibly large numbers, we can also accept the concept of “limits” and that .999… = 1.