About this. This is totally lame.
When you are asked for a cite, no one is asking you to do their work for them, you are being asked to do you own damn work! Now, if I were to ask you to go and find reference and citations that would prove my point, that would certainly be true, and you would have every right, Hamlet, not to Dane to do so. (I slay me!)
As for being insulted by someone who “insists” on asking for a cite because it implies doubt about one’s statements, tough titty. None of us gets a pass, regardless of the apparent truthiness of our positions, we are expected to back them up. Alternatively, we can brew a nice big cup of STFU.
There are differences, of course, mostly a matter of tone.
For instance, the following example:
[QUOTE=Hamlet]
Aargle-bargle, pot of tea, pot of tea, peas and carrots, peas and carrots, blah blah blah
[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Moi]
Cite?
[/QUOTE]
Note the polite and decorous tone and manner of the request, as one who sincerely seeks further data and an expansion of one’s universe of information. Compare and contrast with:
[QUOTE=Moi]
Aargle-bargle, pot of tea, pot of tea, peas and carrots, peas and carrots, blah blah blah
[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Hamlet]
Cite?
[/QUOTE]
Note the snide condescension and ridicule in the second example! Clearly, this is an attack on the posters character, intelligence, and sexual preferences, and all right thinking Dopers will scorn such an outrage!
I hope this clarifies the matter for you.