While I agree with most of what’s been said, and believe racism covers any aspect of unfairly generalized perceived difference, I think there’s one part that is a bit harder to define as racism. Definitions of beauty can, in some sense, be tied to race if it of course refers to some common physical aspect (which is what we usually choose to define race as anyways).
What I mean is that people are allowed to have taste, and taste in those they find attractive. No one would think you were being offensive if you said, “I don’t like women with long legs.” Similarly one could find certain features more or less desirable if they are physical, and race may be a factor. Of course, the idea of race per se is probably too broad for most of these characteristics, as an average woman from Western Africa is quite different from an average woman from Eastern Africa, though both would be called ‘black’ (and ‘African-American’ by the ill-informed). But maybe in pointing out the specific features you like or dislike, you’ve moved entirely away from race altogether, and forming more specific groups.
So, if I say, “I like Asian women for their dark hair,” it’s hard to say that is racist since those we consider as Asian women have dark red/black hair. I have to qualify it more if I say, “I love the golden skin of Asian women,” since there’s much more variation in skin tone among so-called Asians, so maybe I should say, “I love golden-skinned Asian women,” and that might have more meaning (and using ‘Asian’ provides more description).
However, if I say, “I like Asian women because they’re short,” it’s still more generalizing, since Asian women are not automatically short. Someone who says, “I like tall, skinny white men,” simply has specific tastes, though.
Statements about ability based on race are unfair generalizing, like “Latin lovers are the best” or “them black people sure do dance well”.
IMHO, one shouldn’t be too taste-bound anyway and should be open to as much beauty as possible. Although I can describe the sorts of things I like on the surface, I wouldn’t use it as a criterion for someone I’d date or fall in love with.
panama jack