Sure, why not?
Again: I’m not a democrat and so I don’t see anything intrinsically wrong with restricting political rights to a minority.
Yes, it doesn’t have anything to do with ‘women’ vs. ‘men’. It’s a fairly straightforward issue of human life: is it even legitimate to kill an innocent human being for your own convenience? This is why in, for example, studies like the Olson paper which I linked to, they group abortion together with other ‘life’ issues. Not surprisingly, women tend to favour or oppose abortion in about the same numbers as men.
I support abortion in cases of serious medical threats to the mother, and not for any other reason (including rape, etc.). That’s not an extreme position, it’s (one of) the positions in the moderate middle.
Evidently we have very different ideas of what the common good is. I’d say the common good is eminently served by laws that say, no, no matter how unhappy you might be, and no matter how much it may hurt your feelings, you don’t have the right to kill your child. Their life is more important than your comfort and your ‘freedom’. Sorry.