Activity for Girl's Birthday Party

I had Girl Scouts that age. At eight, most of them were up to stringing largish beads, decorating boxes. BUT they also had an attention span of about fifteen minutes - so you are looking for a fifteen minute craft. Candles and soap were good. Their attention span for making pom poms lasted for weeks - they LOVED that. Getting those photo boxes (or paper mache boxes from the craft store) and stuff to decorate them and having them make their own treasure boxes is good. Having them decorate their own cupcakes can take fifteen minutes and provide ENDLESS entertainment.

What they really wanted to do at a sleepover though was watch girly movies (The Princess Diaries was a big hit at that age), have a dance party in the basement, and gossip about school. I’m just finishing a sleepover for my now twelve year old - we went out to the theatre to see a musical instead of watching movies, and then they gossiped, played board games, gossiped some more.

I found at that age picking a theme worked well - we did a Luau at about eight. So they strung flowers into leis, had pineapple juice with ham for dinner, and learned to “hula.” Last year, when my daughter turned eleven, we had a mystery party - that worked really well with eleven year olds - but eight is probably a little young.

ETA: Plan ahead for the mess - we had great fun making paper at about nine or so - but MESS! Same with decorating cupcakes - great fun, but you’ll be cleaning frosting off the ceiling.

Here is one i have used before For a 7 year old .
large t shirts knee length
fabric markers
paper bag large
put paper bags in shirts to keep other side dry
Have fun
or get printable iron on sheets
have your child or her friend choose a coloring page (you can find many on the net)
once printed iron on and cool they should be able to color them in (did this for Halloween pillow cases ones use sharpy makers but should work with fabric markes)
do not use any glitter or it will be all over the sheets (other moms or dad will not thank you for glitter)

Here is one i have used before For a 7 year old .
large t shirts knee length
fabric markers
paper bag large
put paper bags in shirts to keep other side dry
Have fun
or get printable iron on sheets
have your child or her friend choose a coloring page (you can find many on the net)
once printed iron on and cool they should be able to color them in (did this for Halloween pillow cases ones use sharpy makers but should work with fabric markes)
do not use any glitter or it will be all over the sheets (other moms or dad will not thank you for glitter)