There is no such thing as the patriarchy and no such thing as rape culture.
Men live on average 7-8? Years Less than women. 95% of prisoners in jail are men. It is overwhelmingly men who work the extreme, dangerous, backbreaking and undesirable jobs like coal mining or working the pipes on oil rigs. When there is war, it is overwhelmingly the men who get sent off to die. Women make and nurture new life, which is the be all and all of human existence.
The patriarchy is a myth.
As for rape culture? The urge to procreate is an instinctual and biological imperative, not a cultural one. Many animals rape each other. The effect of culture and civilization is to reduce acts of sexual violence not increase them. The fact that this is so is evidenced by events such as anarchy, natural disaster or other break downs of society and law and order in which instances of rape increase dramatically as an immediate consequence.
One of the great commonalities of authoritarian regimes and particularly leftist and socialist ones is that they attempt to gain and control their authority by coercing people into accepting, stating and sometimes believing ridiculous propositions that are demonstrably untrue. One is not allowed to think for themselves. They can do this because humans have a propensity to want to get along with each other that can be manipulated. As children most remember the practical joke where you get a group of friends who are in on it and one who is not. You say “two elephants were in a bathtub. One elephant looks at the other and says “no soap radio.” Than you and everybody else in on it start laughing uproariously. The person not in on it will almost inevitably join in. You can then tease that person by asking him they get it and they will usually assert they do.
Hating rape culture the tyrannical patriarchy seem like nice just attitudes to have and questioning either can result In wokeshaming to gain compliance but its just “no soap radio.”