You don’t think that calling someone a “crazy broad” is a personal insult? Wow. I would bet that most people would view it as an insult to be called a “crazy broad.”
Um, have you even read this thread? I answered this several times:
In my OP I said:
Post 19:
Post 46:
I hope that helps explain it… :rolleyes:
This thread has nothing to do with what legal rights I have. I simply asked what peoples’ experiences have been in similar situations. That is why I posted this thread in IMHO, duh!
So what you’re saying is, that until the moment I say “I do,” I have no “right” to care about the feelings of the man I love, or the feelings and welfare of his children, who live with us 2/7ths of the time? That’s quite an extreme view.
It’s a wonder anyone ever gets married, given your viewpoint that we shouldn’t care about anyone we’re not married to, or their families…
So I take it you didn’t care about your husband’s feelings or the feelings or welfare of any of his family members before you got married? Did you have an arranged marriage?
And if you split from your husband and had another relationship in which you were together for years, and planned to be married… you don’t think that man would have any right to be concerned about or care about your child?
And, are you saying that you don’t care about any children not your own? So if you suspected a child close to you, who you spent 2 days out of every 7 living with and taking care of, was abused, neglected, or having any sort of problem, you think it’s totally inappropriate to CARE… to care enough to seek opinions of other people in similar circumstances?
I call bullsh*t on you.
Finally, I would like to see how you would feel if you got divorced and your husband remarried, and his new wife insisted that your kids call her “mom,” and whenever you saw them, they talked about “mom this…” and “mom that…” And even wanted to change their last name to hers…
If you honestly did not feel any feelings towards this, then I would be inclined to think you are not human. Just my humble opinion.