Okie Dokie.
I’ll give you the Cliff Notes version.
Typical story of a young, stupid, trusting, girl. Moved in with boyfriend. At the time, boyfriend and girl (this is me, for anyone who hasn’t figured it out yet and cares) both work at same resteraunt making good money.
Girl is able to pay her bills just fine. And half the rent. And her car payment. She uses her credit cards frequently because she is able to pay the balance. Balances begin to climb as she stupidly lets boyfriend purchase things on said card. See, boyfriend doesn’t have credit, and girl is in love :rolleyes:
Trouble’s a-brewing. Boyfriend is accused of gasp! stealing from resteraunt that him and girl both work at. Boyfriend is promptly fired. Ruh-roh. :eek: As boy takes his sweet-ass time finding another job, girl is now left paying 100% of the bills, rent and tuition (oh yes, girl is also paying her way through school). Now, girl was perfectly able to pay * her share * of bills, but is struggling to pick up boy’s half as well. She picks up extra shifts.
Boy has now gotten another job but is failing to bring home any money from it. He’s got a three-week long training program, then the tips are horrid, excuses, excuses, escuses. (Girl does not know to this day what boy was really doing with the money he was making, but oh-well).
Any-hoo, management at girls resteraunt decide if boy was stealing, and girl lives with boy then she can’t be trusted either. Management decides to “push” girl out. (Anyone still reading and curious about this, it’s when they cut your shifts, give you horrid hours (usually when I had class) ect. until you have no choice but to quit.) Girl hunts for new job then quits old one. Girl is responsible see? But new job gets about half as many tips as old one, with which she was * already * struggling to make ends meet with. 
I’m sure you can see where this is going. Bills pile up, girl can’t pay, they go to collections. And girl is thus treated like a “scumbag” who “chose not” to pay her bills.
While I agree that you probably don’t have time to listen to everyone’s sob stories, I still stand by my statement that when you try to work with them (there was no way in hell I could pay off everything when a collector demanded it. I could however, pay off everything via payment plans. And two years later, I’m debt free) you’ll be a hell of a lot more likely to get paid.
You claim you’re professional and don’t insult people, ect. ect. But the distain that comes through in your opinion of “scumbag debtors” in your posts I have a feeling can quite easily come through in your interactions with them.
I’m very sorry for the hijack, I realized as I was half-way through that it may not be appropriate. But dammit, I was already half-way through! Sauron, I apologize.