Where I work, many clients call who are struggling with their debts. Often-times the debts are in collections or in the process of litigation.
I have heard some fascinating and horrifying stories about credit problems. General trends I’ve encountered:
–People who move into a new apartment and are held responsible for the debt of the previous tenant, or the debt of a roommate, where no amount of explanation seems to suffice and the innocent party is pursued to the point of litigation, shut off of utilities, etc regardless of the fact that they aren’t the responsible party.
–Collection agents becoming verbally abusive, swearing and using all manner of tactics to try to get the debtor to pay up – calling debtors stupid, liars, belonging in a crazyhouse, etc – stuff completely beyond the realm of professional.
–An outright refusal to provide information about the debt, refusal to disclose the balance due or provide information about even where the debt came from. Their sole purpose seems to be tricking the debtor into making a statement that can be remotely construed as ‘‘I refuse to pay this debt’’ and then distorting reality to create the impression of a hostile debtor.
–Lying about the debtor’s options. For example, many debt collection agents say, ‘‘We refuse to negotiate with 3rd party credit counselors’’ but it’s simply not true because they often end up doing just that.
I admit that things were bad enough in my financial life at one point that I owed money to debt collectors. But they were never anything other than polite and understanding and willing to work with me. In fact, I owe quite a large debt of gratitude (ha!) to a few in particular that stand out to me.
I am a person who advocates that people take responsibility for their debts and pay them off accordingly, but it seems that if someone owed you money, you would try to establish a good relationship with them to try to get it back, not harass them to the point that they stop answering their phone. I also get the feeling that what a debt collector tells you must be done, and what the actual law is, probably are very different things.
I am trying to comprehend how debt collectors can get away with being unprofessional dickwads… and I am also curious to know if anything like this has happened to any Dopers out there. I am sort of wondering how common it is. As I have mentioned before, it doesn’t jibe with personal experience. And anyone who has been a debt collector, or who has any knowledge about the law in this area would be welcomed to contribute as well.
Thanks,
Christy