threemae-do you not get how the legal system works?
The evidence is weighed up, the defense makes a case, the plaintiff makes a case, and on the basis of the available evidence, a decision is made.
As for what he “should have known”, you’re talking crap. People often manage to hide their addictions, eating disorders, self-harm, promiscuity etc from their family and friends. It’s not a new thing. Sometimes people are better at hiding things from those they know, sometimes the family and friends don’t know what to look for or what to ask.
Sometimes strangers are better at working out the real situation, simply because they have some distance. Ever met someone you knew was gay straight off, but the person’s family were all still under the impression they were straight? It happens.
About Medical negligence:
If your wife, who has been drinking a lot of water recently and losing some weight collapses in front of you and you don’t know how to revive her, you’re not guilty of anything except not having a lot of medical knowledge.
If your wife walks into her doctor’s office, with a history of thirst, weight loss and urinary frequency, and collapses, and the doc doesn’t treat her for presumed Diabetic Ketoacidosis, it’s negligence.
More knowledge equals more responsibility. Not proximity or a close relationship to the person concerned, but professional skills in that area.
If you’re treating a woman for infertility secondary to recent onset amenorrhea, with a history of a significant weight loss in her recent past and you don’t outrule an eating disorder, you’ve made a serious error in judgement. Because you DO know what to look for, and you DO know what to ask.
How are you still not getting this?