We’ve had this discussion several times before: Whenever a gay poster mentions a one-night stand or casually hooking up with a partner, someone usually posts in the thread to remind them to be careful and practice safe sex. Other gay posters usually rip the safe-sex poster a new one for their audacity to presume the gay population doesn’t know about AIDS and safe sex.
A recently released study indicates that a majority (77 percent) of the gay and bisexual men in the study who tested HIV positive don’t even realize they have the disease.
A few excerpts:
"On Sunday, Dr. Ronald Valdiserri, the CDC’s deputy director for HIV, STD and TB prevention, warned that infection rates could climb again unless prevention efforts are stepped up. The rates have remained fairly stable at 10,000 new cases every three months since 1998. …
Another CDC study presented at the conference, which examined anonymous blood samples of 40,000 high-risk patients of all ages, found that the rate of new infections for gay and bisexual men was nine times higher than for women and heterosexual men."
Folks, this Web site is about fighting ignorance. Obviously, when 77 percent of gay and bisexual men infected with a deadly disease don’t even know they have it, a certain level of ignorance exists. It may be personally offensive to you to hear the safe-sex mantra over and over, but there’s evidence that the message needs to be told in as many ways and in as many places as possible.
Some of the folks who get upset about these safe-sex reminders are long-time and valued posters here. Speaking for the Board as a whole (which I’m allowed to do, being Evil Incarnate and all), we don’t want to lose you. Yes, hearing this reminder about safe sex is akin to your mother telling you every time you walk out the door to buckle your seatbelt. But she does that because she cares. Rather than getting upset at a reminder, could you refrain from attacking a poster (any poster) who is repeating the safe-sex mantra? It obviously needs to be said.
I’m putting this in the Pit, because I’m sure the responses (if there are any; in addition to being Evil Incarnate, I’m a threadkiller, too) will get heated. I hope not. I’m not trying to be confrontational; I just don’t want to lose anyone here (or any lurkers) to this senseless disease.