Fine, I’m chiming in. I’m the one who’s recently got the nasty “Every hear of AIDS???!??!??!??!?” hijacks.
I’m 30. I don’t know what the younger gay guys are doing, but if they think that they can fuck bareback, contract HIV, and just take pills (at a regimented time every day), and be OK, well that’s just stupid. The meds have side-effects. They cost money.
HIV/AIDS has been part of my life even before I realized I was gay, and even before I became sexually active with men.
While I appreciate the goodwill of those who don’t want me, or anyone else, to be infected, I have to say this: I’ve made it clear several times that I practise safe® sex. I know the facts. I’ve spoken to doctors about my practices, in graphic detail (that’s the joy of having gay doctors - they get it).
I’ve only had a few warnings from my mother. “Just protect yourself,” is the most she’s said. She knows I will. However, I worry about those whose friends, parents, and siblings won’t give them that little reminder. Maybe those are the ones who lurk here and need to see our endless HIV/AIDS debates (and they are endless, it seems).
But let’s take it from the perspective of a lurker. He or she sees these threads, and the simple fact that these threads are here reminds him or her that HIV/AIDS is still a plague.
So we can go back and forth as much as we want, but a lurker will hopefully realize there’s something going on. Yes, it’s kind of a manageable disease (but not for long), but it’s still FATAL.
I just don’t want any relationship/sex kind of post ever hijacked again with “Ever hear of AIDS??!??!??!” :rolleyes: No, honey, I’ve been living under a rock for the past 20 years. Yes, I know about AIDS and HIV, I know about safe® sex (probably more than you do), and I take the best care of myself in that respect. However, I’m not about to become chaste because of it.
HIV/AIDS affects everyone, but it’s still attached to the gay male community, in some people’s view, as if it was our fault. Does anyone really think we asked for this? Those poor guys in the 70s and early 80s had no idea what was going on.
At least now we kind of know. I wish I could say that “we know,” but we don’t, do we?