I’ve been reading all of these comments with interest because I’m a big buy. Retired linebacker big. 6’3’’, 340 lbs.
I can fit in a single airline seat with discomfort. Thanks to the shrinking seat width (they’re really narrower now), and the reduced legroom, flying is a painful experience.
I try to sit with my arms crossed to keep my elbows out of my neighbors lap, I try to request seats where I will be less a burden on my neighboring passengers by getting bulkhead or exit row seats. When possible, I move to a seat with an empty one beside it.
If I lost 100 lbs today, my elbows, shoulders and hips would not shrink. I get thinner but I do not get smaller. My elbows would still be in my neighbors space. My hip bones are still pressed painfully against the armrests.
The simple fact is that airlines, in the quest for slave-ship-dense efficiency have decided that if you’re over 5’10’’ or if you’re over two-hundred pounds then you’re a second class citizen. Since there’s no ADA rule, since all the other airlines are doing it, it’s simply good business at the expense of a portion of the populace.
Many of you that think that size is a choice and therefore should not be accomodated. Given this argument, every person in a wheelchair who is there as the result of choice should not be accomodated either.
“Sir, you’ve got cerebral palsy - please step aboard the lift over here. Sorry, Ma’am, you’re in a wheelchair because you were in a ski accident. That was a bad choice on your part. Please feel free to drag yourself up the staircase over there. I’m sure you understand that the electicity to run the lift twice is not justified on somebody who made the choice to ski without a helmet.”
I’ve been big my whole life. As a result of that choice, I’ve put up with people who think that “All you’ve got to do is diet.” Well, if it was that easy there’d be no fat people. It isn’t easy. It isn’t simple.
“Fat” is one of the last bastions of acceptable predjudice. The “Shallow Hal” movie is the latest insult. Wow - a two-hour long fat joke. Bet it had to be shown in widescreeen, Har, Har, Har. You see it again and again on this board, “Fatty”, “Fatso”, “Wide Load”. How 'bout we discuss race and try using “Spic”, “Nigger”, & “Kike” - but that would be unkind.
I’m not saying that I shouldn’t have to pay for a second seat if I really need it. I’m offended, though, that some of you could object to me sitting beside you. It’s damned uncomfortable for me and awkward for you. Excuse me for my proximity.