Nailed it in one.
Stealth is all about sacrificing aerodynamic and structural performance on the altar of low observability. It makes the aircraft worse as an aircraft even as it makes it better as a war machine.
The Bonanza was one of the few production aircraft that had a V-tail mostly for the hell of it. And they retained it for years as a signature marketing feature, rather like the reverse-swept tail on the Mooney series of lightplanes. It doesn’t do anything except look distinctive.
Even the Bonanza eventually gave up on the V-tail.
The big problem with V-tails is that you don’t actually gain the advantages the OP suggests: “… with less overall surface area and less drag.”
Now let’s learn a bit about conventional 3-surface tails:
The tail of a conventional aircraft is sized by something called “tail volume” which is the planform area of the tail times the length of the lever arm from the center of gravity. If you’ve got a long aft fuselage a relatively small tail has enough leverage to do the job. A shorter aft fuselage on an otherwise identical airplane would require the tail to be larger to exert the same leverage.
The fixed parts of the tail serve two orthogonal purposes: stability in pitch by the horizontal surfaces and stability in yaw by the vertical surface(s). Every airplane is inherently nose heavy and the purpose of the horizontal tail is to push down continuously to keep the airplane stable. Given a fixed fuselage size, the amount of down force required drives the area of the horizontal tail.
The vertical tail’s size need is completely different. In cruise flight there is no need for any side force; zero is plenty. It’s only in disturbed flight that you need some side force to restore the yaw state to stable. That’s assuming balanced propulsion; we’ll discuss unbalanced propulsion below. A single engine jet will always have balanced propulsion. A single prop will not due to torque and P-factor, so some amount of side force will be continuously required. But it’s a small fraction of the horizontal down force required on the same airplane.
Having 2 horizontal tails surfaces and one vertical surface, each of similar size is a decent starting point to then refine the design. But by the time the refinement is done, the vertical can be anywhere between 0.75x to 1.5x the size of a single horizontal surface. Thy’re similar; they’re not the same.
That’s stability. Next up is control.
The movable part of the horizontal tail is what gives the ability to maneuver in pitch. And again the length of the lever arm is part of the equation. The fixed+moving parts of the horizontal tail form an airfoil. By deflecting the movable part (the elevator), you alter the amount of lift force (downward pointing, but lift nonetheless). How big the elevator is and how much it can move are driven by how aggressively the airplane will need to maneuver.
The movable part of the vertical tail is what gives the ability to maneuver in yaw. By deflecting the movable part (the ruder), you alter the amount of lift force (leftwards or rightwards pointing, but lift nonetheless).
How big the rudder is and how much it can move are driven mostly by propulsion imbalance. A high powered single prop airplane will need a larger rudder to offset the dynamic torque and P-factor as the engine throttles up & down and the airspeed changes vs a low-powered single prop airplane. In a multi-engine airplane, prop or jet, the biggest concern is engine failure, and especially during takeoff when airspeed is slow and engine power is high. That’s the worst case for propulsion imbalance vs available aerodynamic power to offset the imbalance.
The business of aircraft design is to size each of these things as small as gets the job done, but no smaller. A too-big structure will weigh more and will have a larger surface area (“wetted area”) which is one contributor to drag.
Now to V-tails:
Because of the need for continuous downforce in flight, the two tails are constantly generating lift outwards/downwards. If we assume a 45 degree tail angle for simplicity, only 70% of the lift generated is doing any good vertically. so we need to generate 1.4x as much total force to get the full 100% we need going downwards. All of the force in the lateral direction is wasted; just the two tails pushing in opposite directions.
Aerodynamic drag comes from several sources. Wetted area is just one. Drag due to lift is the biggee. And with this design we’re creating 1.4x as much lift as we need and therefore 1.4x as much drag. And because we need more total lift than we’d need for a conventional 3-tail, we need the surfaces to be larger = heavier = more wetted area as well.
Just as the two V-tails are less efficient in generating pitch forces up & down, they’re identically less efficient in generating yaw forces when needed. So the same 1.4x problem applies.
I mentioned up above that in a properly optimized 3-tail design, the vertical and horizontal tails are each sized independently for their respective and very different missions.
In a V you need to design the two tails for the larger of those two very different needs. Which means they’re oversized = extra heavy = extra wetted area for the lesser of the two needs.
A variable you can adjust to alter the mix of horizontal & vertical forces is the angle between the tails. The YF-23 needs large pitch forces to maneuver aggressively, and doesn’t need a lot of yaw power because the worst case propulsion imbalance is small due to the engines being nearly on the centerline. So they canted the tails more horizontally. etc.
Bottom line: there’s a lot more to the tradeoff than just “2 tails means 2/3rds the weight & surface area drag vs 3 tails so that’s an obvious win.”