I don’t see a compelling reason for aliens to look like us. Science fiction writers have invented all sorts of different alien forms. Even if you buy the usual arguments for the general layout – keep sensing nerves short relatyive to the brain, so sight, hearing, and maybe taste are in the same place. You want a stable and mobile form, you probably evolved from a similar body plan, etc. it’s not clear that you get something that loks like us.
Who says you only need two eyes for binocular vision? why not three or more? Plenty of creatures have three eyes. Spiders have many more.
Who says you need a camera-like eye, such as humans and octopus have? An insect-like eye would give you a much broader range of vision. Why not an eye like a mantis shrimp, with not only insect-like lens+sensor components, but also built-in frequency filters and much improved polarization sensitivity.
Does an alien need eyes at all? It m,ight be effectively blind. Or it might “see” by detecting sound, or it might be sensitive in different parts of the spectrum (although it would require specialized environments. Or it might have some odd sense that combines scent and vision, as in Hal Clement’s short story “Common Sense”.
Why have the brain in a specrate head with a higfhly vulnerable neck? Why not in the center of the torso?
Larry Niven made the suggestioin in one story that aliens might have started out as we did, but their ancestors got chased out of the sea while still using six fins, and might have evolved to six-limbed creatures, like Edgar Rice Burroughs’ Tharks. There are certainly other ways to get there, of course. But we can’t rule out other forms of manipulation and locomotion. Tentacles, caterpillar-like “false limbs”, elephant trunk-like structures. What if creatures evolved from dolphin-like creatures, and had a prehensile penis that doubled as a manipulation organ? What if humans had retained tails? What if creatures developed tongues that served in stead of hands, or were like Niven’s “Puppeteers”, which have a brain in a torso, but eyes in two head-like appendages that each had an eye and a mouth, which was equipped with knobs on the lips that could act like fingers?
For that matter, why assume that creatures must be symmetrical? Niven loved asymmetry, which shows up multiple times in his work, most notably in the “Moties” in his novel The Mote in God’s Eye (and its sequel, The Gripping Hand).
We look the way we do because of a series of adventitious events. There’s no reason to believe that intelligent aliens would develop from a similar set of events, or that convergent evolution selects for structures identical to ours if the environment is different. Or even if it’s the same, for that matter.