In what universe is a 14 year old a late teen or young adult?
I wonder this too. I’m skeptical. It’s hard when you’ve seen 30 years of status quo to ever expect anything to change.
Your opinion contradicts the law, in many cases. I was molested when I was 11 through age 17ish. The story came out at age 17 and I still get shit from my family for not saying anything sooner, now that they believe me. I wish I’d never said anything, sometimes, because it had no impact on anything but my own reputation. And you wonder why we don’t come forward.
Nobody will ever cease to make victims’ lives a living hell no matter how they respond. It’s never at the right time, it’s never in the right way, I never did the thing some people think I should have done in their own clueless hypothetical invention of what they would do. SSDD. This is why I never expect anything to change.
I’ve got a buddy who’s been disheartened by all the people he respects who have been outed for this kind of behavior. The other day we were talking in a group setting and he starts going on and on about how he got to work out with Arnold a couple times, and he’s such a great guy, and how Arnold is really his hero.
I didn’t have the heart to tell him.
For the record, what is Harvey Weinstein’s height? I know people have said he uses his size to intimidate people but is only due to the fact he’s fat or is he tall as well?
Anyway, Weinstein seems like a childhood bully who never reformed because no one firmly told him no or physically kicked his ass. As a result, he’s come to think he can do whatever he wants and is unbounded by the social rules and laws that restrain the rest of us. It wouldn’t be surprising if this attitude affected his behavior toward women.
It’s even worse for them, when money no longer matters it’s your legacy that keeps you going. I’m sure most of them would happily give up their riches if it would give them back a good name.
I’m going to try really hard to feel sorry for… Uuurgh… Nope. Can’t do it.
Unless any of these accusations result in conviction (maybe likely with Weinstein) I doubt it will be much more than a hard couple of years for any of them.
He’s about 6 feet and 300 pounds. He doesn’t appear to be athletic. I can see how his size and rage would intimidate a small person like Selma Hayek but he’s also acted like a compete asshole to men. I’m very surprised he hasn’t gotten his ass kicked before.
Apparently Brad Pitt did.
And yet nobody is running towards Bill Cosby with millions of dollars in development money to finance his next t.v. or film project.
And they won’t. He drugged and raped women for decades.
People don’t forget at all. They need to turn a blind eye because it’s a lot simpler to ignore the horrific in those we idolize than to recognize the horrific as a universal constant, thus robbing ourselves of those we idolize.
That is a despicable and callous statement. I hope you never have to experience why.
I am as well. I suspect we will jump forward, face a backlash, and end up about a step forward from where we were before all of this. But I think we will net out with positive change.
I question what talent Harvey Weinstein actually has that would warrant a comeback. He has no acting talent. He has no directing talent. What could he possibly contribute?
The weird part in all of this is that Steven Seagal will still be in Russia and Eastern Europe making his crappy Direct to DVD movies when vastly more talented individuals
are being run out of the entertainment industry. As a now openly gay man, Kevin Spacey has much more limited options to work overseas than he did before. Other individuals might have more luck working overseas. It will be interesting to see how this all plays out.
What “backlash” do you expect?
Part (or even all) of that may be because he’s 80, mostly blind, and is reportedly showing early signs of dementia; it’s a bad financial risk to build a project around someone in that condition.
You know what the cure for blindness and dementia is? Being found innocent on all charges.
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Men not hiring women, women being excluded from some business gatherings, that sort of thing - basically, men who take the approach that if you keep the women away you won’t have this sort of problem rather than addressing the root causes. That’s what I expect will happen to some degree. There are still a lot of powerful men who think they have a “right” to certain things are who are happy to punish the “troublemakers” rather than clean up the system.
I doubt that will happen for the simple fact that what you’re talking about is now illegal under local, state, and federal law. Unless there’s a massive reactionary political wave similar to what’s depicted in “The Handmaid’s Tale”, men are just going to have to learn how to deal with women in the workplace without having to display their dicks in public.