Although I'm being paid to be there, when the church collection plate comes around, do I put in?

Many churches (virtually all Catholic churches around here, for sure) have discrete little envelopes tucked away somewhere for people to slip bills or checks into before placing the donation into the collection plate. Commonly, there are in pockets on the backs of the pews, in the same places the missals, hymnals, and such are stored. Sometimes they are up near the church’s entrance, where weekly bulletins and other printed materials are kept.

In any case, you can use the church’s envelopes, your own envelopes from home, or just save the return-mail envelopes from junk mail. Or whatever - a folded-up piece of loose-leaf paper would even suffice. The point is, you can simply drop an envelope into the collection plate. That envelope can be empty, can have a buck in it, or can contain your business card. Or something else (e.g. newspaper coupons for a restaurant you won’t go to) perhaps for the treasurer’s or priest’s/pastor’s attention.

Use an envelope, and it’s no one’s business at all what you put in the plate. Not that it would be otherwise, but use of an envelope satisfies the truly nosy.

Speaking as a Catholic who goes to Mass every Sunday…

If you were attending Mass at my parish solely to listen to the sound system, purely as part of your job, I wouldn’t expect you to contribute financially at all. If you hear a particularly stirring sermon or the church is collecting for a cause you admire, feel free to donate- but there’s absolutely no obligation on your part.

Wow, this sure lasted a long time in GQ. I’m letting the mods know so they can move it to IMHO.

Give cheerfully. That is give what you want to give and are happy about giving. If you are giving out of guilt about what others think you giving then don’t.

When I visit my sons families we normally go to church. Normally I do not give to their churches and that is OK. If you are a guest at a church, either visiting or on the job there is no reason that you should have to give. If there is something in the message that touches your heart and you want to bless the church then it is ok to give. But only if you want to give.

The only reason the person next to you is looking at the plate or bag in your hand is to take it from you when you are finished with it. And if he is looking to see if you gave then please forgive them, but do not take on any guilt for not giving.

Why would you attend services just because you’re installing a sound system for them?

How much? If you feel generous and/or want to be noticed, make it big and flashy.

Otherwise, put a dollar in a plain, opaque envelope, seal it, and drop it in the collection plate. Your donation may be duly noticed, but the amount is indeed a private matter, no?

Before the work is done: to check the state of the current system and the acoustics of the church. You can’t do this with empty seats because sounds bounces.

During the work: to check on progress and identify possible trouble spots.

After the work is completed: final systems and quality check.

And no, you aren’t obligated to give a dime. Anybody who expects you to is a money-grubber who Jebus would have driven from the temple.

To check out the acoustics and see what needs to be done. They’re not buying a sound system so they can talk to an empty room; it’s different when it’s full of bodies.

This is better suited to IMHO than General Questions.

Colibri
General Questions Moderator

I May Have Overthought?

As mentioned above, people give in a variety of ways; barely anyone gives money in the collection where I go. My mother in fact writes a single check for the whole year in January. No stink-eyes are given at any time that I have seen.

Hmm, makes sense, I never would have thought about it. Though I would probably just stand somewhere in the back in my uniform so people know I’m not an actual member

Hell No!

I write a single check a year for my church and no one, not one single person, has ever given me the stink eye when I pass the plate.

I’d say just pass the plate. You’re there on the job not as a member. If you want to make it clear you can wear a badge on your jacket with your name and business on it: Joe Blow: Church Sound Engineer.

Wear a tool belt and carry a clipboard.

Nobody will challenge anything you do, including tell the sermon-giver to speak up.

You could have some fun with this…

Pretty much this. And you would probably not even be the only one not putting anything into the collection plate. IME a lot of church members make an offering every month or every pay period instead of weekly. And as has been mentioned, a lot of churches, even if they pass a plate during the service, allow you to pay tithes online. But the bottom line is that if you are there to do a job you shouldn’t feel obligated to make an offering if you don’t want to.

That’s gross income, not net. Please people, don’t force us to audit.

Do not give anything. The Offering is for members, and others who support it’s mission, to support the church. It’s not a collection for bail or tossing in for a keg. The church truly doesn’t want your money if it’s not given with Christian lovingkindness. That’s no dig on you, the point is you should view it as a part of the service for participants, not observers; like communion.

I am a paid section leader for a Catholic church choir. I am not Catholic. I do not contribute to the Catholic church collection plate. (Though there’s always the chance that I might if they were collecting for something I felt particularly fervent about. Hasn’t happened yet.) I do contribute at my own (non-Catholic) church.

Catholic.

I don’t expect anybody to give during the collection, and poking your nose into who does or doesn’t is so completely against the idea it’s making my head hurt. Even setting aside the purely practical aspect that you have no idea how much people are giving or in which ways (there being others than the collection), anybody who does should have to copy the story of the poor widow and the rich man 100 times. In legible handwriting.