I’m interested in the input of nurses, docs, shrinks, and people who have had first hand (or second hand) experience with Alzheimer patients.
Presenting here the case of an 81 year old male (my maternal grandfather): Up until december, he seemed mostly “with it”. He was healthy, jolly, puttering around his house, doing his normal stuff. He was starting to show some mild memory lapses - but nothing really out of the ordinary. Played cards with his daughter and son in law, and seemed to forget some rules, but otherwise was able to think, reason, and plan ahead.
By April, he started having pains in his abdomen. Finally at the end of May, he visited a doctor. He was diagnosed as some prostate problem. Medications were adjusted, surgery was planned. He started exhibiting strange behavior - fainting spells, aggressive outbursts on occasion. He experienced some paranoid hallucinations. Doctor wrote this off as the side effects of the medications he was on and expected recovery after surgery.
Surgery happened in June (unless I am mistaken). His DL was returned to him and he was told he could drive. The condition went from bad to worse. He started having violent outbursts, and the hallucinations became more and more invasive. He started being convinced people were out to kill him.
One night, he drove himself to the police station and told the cops some woman had climbed through his bedroom window and assaulted him. Behavior got more and more erratic. DL was taken away.
His wife, also 81, ended up having him brought to the hospital for an evaluation. He “checked himself out”, went to the bank, emptied out a bank account and walked around town with thousands of dollars in his boxer shorts. He fainted, somewhere along the way, and was brought back to the hospital. It took 3 nurses and a doctor to sedate him and retrieve the money from his pants.
Finally, the diagnosis is Alzheimers Disease, final stages (quite acute dementia by now). What interests me is this: Has anyone ever seen this disease progress THIS fast? Sure, some “tell-tale” signs were there before, but none really before the last 6 months or so. We are now looking at long term care options, of course, and though last week he recognised people, this week he does not anymore. He is getting more and more violent and aggressive, to the point where they have to keep him relatively sedated, andlock his door from the outside at night so he doesn’t wander.
Very useful.
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