You have to decide if discrimination is really evil or bad. I have come to the conclusion that it is not. You are discriminating on the basis of gender if you will only accept one gender as a potential mate and that is OK as far as I’m concerned but would define you as sexist (discriminating on the basis of gender), and homophobic (discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation - though it does sound like a mental disorder which I’m sure was fully intended).
Shrug, if you’re a homophobe then so am I.
A while back I was able to get into a Kendo seminar that was held in a gym near Mom’s. We could pay for just the course, but since anyway I was going, I figured I’d look into a membership so I’d be able to do more than change clothes, play with bamboo sticks, shower, dress in fresh clothes and leave.
The weighing looks I got from some of the other women in the dressing room made me very uncomfortable, so I decided “against”. I hate “working out”, the last thing I need is to be working out in a place where I can’t relax (no women other than myself came near the group with the bamboo sticks, I got some strange looks from the monitors when I asked about it).