And here's your Dec. rants thread - Merry Christbitchmas!

[digs]

@flatlined

…The only time anyone besides me calls Tony is because they want money or to give him cats.

Mad, frustrated and helpless is how I feel right now.

The good news is, you are feeling perfectly appropriate emotions. You ARE helpless. Tony needs other friends/family/support.

We have a Tony… in our church. It was so lucky for him that he stumbled in one day (probably a decade ago by now). Now he has people that check in on him, and invite him out. And even a free lawyer for when he lashes out at strangers …

AND invitations to dozens of potlucks --so he’s got access to more “hot dishes” and orange Jell-O than a normal person should (yeah, it’s a Lutheran church, how’d you know?).

We invite him to any little get-together where he’ll get free food. It’s sweet-- he’ll bike across town in the snow just to pig out. We make extra, but he’s learned to only make one massive pile of food on his plate until everyone’s had firsts.

I do hope Tony can find some sort of support group (ok, now I’m picturing one of Dr. Hartley’s group therapy sessions from “Newhart”…).

[Chimera]

@hermette

Speaking as a Glaswegian… I’ll just say, umm, thanks.

(do you need a translator?)

At least you write the same language and we can read that, but god knows what the fuck that sounds like coming out of your mouth.

[flatlined]

Never give cooked bacon to cats as a treat.

[Catamount]

@flatlined

Never give cooked bacon to cats as a treat.

Because…? There’s a story behind that sentence somewhere.

[Cub_Mistress]

Goodbye, 2011, you were pretty much a piece of shit to me. Here’s to a fresh start and a happier year!

[Chimera]

I’ve been thinking about my life
And how it’s going to turn
And all I really want to do
Is find a way to go on through

And all I really want to do now
Is find a way to go on through

Afro Celt Sound System Go On Through

[adhemar]

I had to work today and of course everyone wanted to get off early to start thier festivities so I had to get up 3 hours early so we could all go home early. There are several parties were I could go be with all of my friends who are married or at least have a date for the oparty but not me of course. All I want to do is go to sleep since I feel crappy anyway but there are firecrackers going off constantly and probably will be for many more hours and days. So to reiterate, I hate this day! almost as much as Valentines day.

[Lynn_Bodoni]

@flatlined

Never give cooked bacon to cats as a treat.

@SpazCat

Because…? There’s a story behind that sentence somewhere.

Once cats learn that they can get bacon as a treat, they will try to mooch or just plain steal it every time they can. Also, bacon might be indigestible.

[kaylasdad99]

@flatlined

Finally, we got to the crux of the matter. Tony is afraid that I am going to move to Texas and leave him here. Tony is going into the New Year afraid that he’s going to be alone again.

I’m so sad for Tony. I shouldn’t be his only safety net. Tony has very real mental problems that only get treated when he’s in jail or in the hospital. Tony is borderline functional, so nobody can force him to take his meds or go to treatment. I can always tell when Tony has gotten his small disability check because suddenly there are cars in his yard. The only time anyone besides me calls Tony is because they want money or to give him cats.

Mad, frustrated and helpless is how I feel right now.

I’m sorry for the troubles you’re going through, flatlined. Maybe I just watched Mask too many times for my own good, but I had somehow formed the impression that biker communities are close-knit and exceptionally supportive of one another, especially on behalf of their friends who really need support the most. Are there not other people in your circle of biker friends who can be counted upon to step up and be the safety net Tony needs during whatever times you can’t?

Are those teenagers who keep driving their truck into your ditch the kind of good-hearted people you might be able to bring into the circle?

[Cicero]

@LavenderBlue

Glaswegian is my nomination for oddest accent ever.

I was waiting for Hermette to come and karate chop you.

And I think Lulu (To Sir With Love) is Glaswegian. I can understand her- as much as I need to.

[Dunkelheit]

@Cicero

I was waiting for Hermette to come and karate chop you.

And I think Lulu (To Sir With Love) is Glaswegian. I can understand her- as much as I need to.

I dunno if Glaswegian is any worse than the rest of them, but after almost two years here, I have to agree that Scottish accents in general are hell for comprehension. It’s just ridiculous. I’ll be on the train or something, listening to people talk to each other, and catch maybe one in half a dozen words. I can tell that a phone service job is not in my immediate future. I’d be spending too much time saying “I’m so sorry, I don’t understand what you’re saying, could you repeat that?”

[flatlined]

Replying to this thread because kalyasdad99 asked a sympathic question that needs a reply.

@Lynn_Bodoni

Once cats learn that they can get bacon as a treat, they will try to mooch or just plain steal it every time they can. Also, bacon might be indigestible.

Right in one. To make it worse, I’m not the one who did it. I don’t feed my cats people food. Tony did it and I had no clue until I tried to make breakfast for Bill. OUTRAGE!!! My cats actually jumped on the counters and Spike got on the stove. TOTAL OUTRAGE!!! No cats were hurt during the experience, but they were greatly offended when I sprayed them with water and then locked them in the bedroom.

@kaylasdad99

I’m sorry for the troubles you’re going through, flatlined. Maybe I just watched Mask too many times for my own good, but I had somehow formed the impression that biker communities are close-knit and exceptionally supportive of one another, especially on behalf of their friends who really need support the most. Are there not other people in your circle of biker friends who can be counted upon to step up and be the safety net Tony needs during whatever times you can’t?

Are those teenagers who keep driving their truck into your ditch the kind of good-hearted people you might be able to bring into the circle?

I’ve not seen Mask, but we are a community. Tony was a lone wolf, an outlier before he met me. I’ve brought him into the community and he has other friends. He just thinks they will drop him as soon as I leave.

I have no plans to leave. If I did, Tony is still part of the community and will be cared for. Tony was just having one of his “moments”. Mental illness sucks. The pissing match I had with Tony is just a small part of how he deals with the world. Tony scares people and drives them away when he really wants friends. It just sucks and I was venting. I love the man. He has a good heart.

If we were to go out for a ride during monsoon season and before leaving we discussed rainsuits and I still left mine home and it started to storm…wanna guess who would be wearing Tony’s rainsuit? If Tony only has enough money to buy milk (he drinks a couple of gallons a week because of his ulcer) or catfood for the strays…guess who gets fed first.

This is not his fault and it sucks.