Small British Shop Owner writes:
> 1) I am not suggesting that obese people should become anorexic. Rather, I am
> suggesting that the same social pressures that turn a tiny number anorexic
> could also do a lot of good by discouraging obese people from being… obese.
It appears, in fact, that the social pressures that turn a lot of people obese are the same social pressures that turn a smaller number of people anorexic. (In the following I’m talking about the U.S. To a lesser extent this applies to the U.K.) What’s happening is the following: For many years now the average price of food has slowly decreased. This is particularly true of corn and some other grains, since agricultural price supports have made them cheaper. This makes it particularly cheap to use corn syrup in everything and for processed food to be cheap. It’s also become harder not to eat fast food, which is usually fattening. The ability to get exercise has decreased for several reasons. Partly it’s because it’s less easy to walk to work. Now most people must take transportation to it. Partly it’s because we’re working slightly more hours a week. Partly it’s because we’re spending more time on sedentary pursuits, like posting to the SDMB. Simultaneously, there has been social pressure to be thin (particularly for women). (For men, the pressure is often more to be muscular.)
This means that on average we’re eating more and getting less exercise. Most people can just barely keep their weight under control in this situation, but about a third of people are going to slowly become obese under these pressures. We can divide this group of people into several subgroups. Some of them (particularly men) just give up from the start. They generally can’t find time to exercise even if they want to, and they don’t care about social pressure enough to try. Another group of people (particularly women) do care about social pressure, so they try to diet the weight away. Most fail eventually and join the first group of obese people. Some succeed and control their weight. Some can’t stick to a decent diet and instead become anorexic or bulemic.
> 2) There is absolutely no doubt that is becoming more socially acceptable to be
> obese. It is much more acceptable than it was even five years ago.
It depends what you mean by socially acceptable. It’s becoming more common to be obese. It’s not becoming more popular to be obese. It’s less popular, if anything.
> Perhaps I was wrong in saying it should be the media taking a lead. Perhaps
> we all have a responsibility to treat the obese with dignity, politeness, but just
> a little bit of disrespect.
That’s what we do now, and it doesn’t work.
> And as an aside, unrealistic goals are a good thing. If you don’t set yourself
> impossible goals, then you’ll never know just how far you can push yourself.
Do you have any evidence that unrealistic goals work? Not anecdotes, but actual research? It could well be that setting yourself unrealistic goals makes it harder to achieve realistic ones.