I was inspired to open this thread after watching Edward Scissorhands on cable last night, presented by my favorite culinary skillz-having movie hosts, Paul and Annabelle of Dinner And a Movie. Anyway, one of the two mentioned that Tom Cruise had been approached about the role of Edward, but rejected it because he thought it was “too effeminate”. Of course, nothing was said about the greater context in which this offer might have been made, but I just can’t see the Edward role as effeminate. The character’s certainly different, but I can’s see him as effeminate per se. I’ve also noticed that people like John Lithgow are now suspect with regard to their orientation, as someone here once marvelled to learn that he was straight. Have we reached the point where “different” not only equals “gay” but also "effeminate’? To me, to be genuinely effeminate a man would have to have a definite affect to his voice and his mannerisms. Just being a bit off the wall, or articulate, or quiet shouldn’t count.
What do you all think?