Here’s the thing: if someone criticizes a religion, an ideology, a political party or a movement, it’s up to supporters of that group to respond to those criticisms, if they want to.
For example, if someone started a thread called “Anti-Atheism” I would, if I felt like it, defend atheism. What I would not do is:
1.) Resort to personal attacks
2.) Claim that atheists don’t agree about anything, so therefore atheism can’t be critisized
3.) Start a pit thread
4.) Or demand that he take personal responsibility for anyone who’s ever criticized atheists.
As far as feminism’s incoherence, who is responsible for that, if not feminists?