My mother is blind from retinitis pigmentosa.
She has a screen-reading program called Jaws that reads her computer screens out loud to her. It even has a selection of different types of voices you can use.
She gets books on tape from the Library of Congress. They use a special tape player - I cannot remember if she had to pay for that or if it is loaned as well, but she uses it all the time. You can also make requests to have tapes made from books that aren’t yet on tape. My uncle also makes tapes for her. Not being able to read on her own is the most frustrating thing for her.
It is possible to buy a scanner that will read any book for you, but they are pricey (in the thousands) so finding things that are already on tape or getting someone to record them is much more reasonable. She does not read Braille and does not want to learn.
She has a phone number to call for a line that has a recording of the daily newspaper. They even read the ads.
She has a watch and a table clock that will speak the time and date when you press a button on them.
She’s gone for some training at a place called the Sight Center where she lives. They sell products specially adapted for use by blind people as well.
When she wants to go somewhere, she has to rely on my dad or a friend to take her there. This is probably the second most frustrating thing for her.
At restaurants we have to tell her the location of her plate, glass, etc. and how the food is arranged on the plate. At home she still cooks, but not as often as she used to.
Fortunately for her finances are not an issue. Her sight was not severely affected until after she had decided to stop working and my father has always had a good job, so they don’t have to rely on government assistance.
She still has a tiny bit of sight left, so she can tell a bit by what she can see and what the feel of the fabric is what clothes go together.
For comparison - my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer about 10 years ago and went through surgery and treatment. Her blindness has been much more of a burden for her, because once she was done with the cancer treatment, it was essentially over and she was able to put it behind her, though of course she still has to go in for screening tests periodically. The blindness is something she has to deal with every minute of every day. I think the fact that she could do something to positively affect the outcome of the cancer kept her from being depressed about it - there’s nothing that can be done for the blindness and the last little bit of sight that she still has, she knows can be taken away at any time.