I don’t really have much to add to this thread, since the other advice is pretty good. Lee Jones’ book is, in my opinion, a great starting point for a new player, simply because it will get you ‘up to speed’ quickly and the writing style will hold your attention. One of the problems with other poker writers who are better on theory is that a lot of them are pretty bad writers.
If you move up to mid-limit games and above (10-20 and above), Lee Jones’ advice will cost you money in a couple of places, but for a beginner it’s a great book. It’s also one of the cheapest poker books.
Jackknifed Juggernaut: Is the ‘friend’ who told you Hold’em is more luck than skill the one who has invited you into the game? Is he playing in the game? If so, there are two possibilities here: 1) Your friend doesn’t know what he’s talking about, in which case the game may not be that hard and with a little study you might be able to hold your own, or 2) They’re trying to drag a fish into the game, in which case I wouldn’t think much of your ‘friend’. Hold’em requires more skill than just about any other poker game, which is why all the tournaments and pros gravitate to it. Flop games like Hold’em are also the hardest to come from behind in, which gives good players the ability to trap people who are in over their heads and take them for lots of money.
Otto: The hands you mention can be profitable in certain circumstances (mainly tight-passive games), but overall I agree with others that these hands will cost you money. They are also the type of hands that win little when they win, but are easy to misplay and can cost you a lot when your judgement is off (and everyone’s judgement goes off from time to time). So my suggestion is that IF you are going to play these hands, only do so when you feel you have a dominant position at the table and you’re playing your best. If things start to get rough, these should be the first hands you should drop. Better advice would be to not play them at all. They aren’t much good for deceptive purposes and have a low overall EV.
If you want to play looser, you’d be better off playing small suited connectors like 2-5s when conditions are perfect for it. They have about the same expectation (close to zilch in perfect situations, money losing most of the time) , but at least it will make it harder for opponents to read you and therefore raise the expectation of your good hands slightly. And only play hands like that when conditions are perfect - last to act, one bet, passive game, etc.
I used to play a daily 10-20 to 20-40 game against the same opponents, and after a while everyone knows exactly how everyone else plays. So those occasional small connector hands were important to keep people from reading me too well. But if I go to Vegas or play in a game with strangers, I NEVER play hands like this (or the Q-8 type hands either). There’s simply no reason to for deception, and I feel my edge is big enough that I don’t have to go risking my money on near-zero EV hands like this.