I’m a little embarassed to admit, but I actually half fell for this when I got an email from my friends hotmail account.
Before you go calling me an idiot, let me explain my thought process. First off, I checked the header of the email and saw it came from the actual hotmail account. Usually these kinds of things come from mail forwarders, and a quick check of the header indicates as much. So that added some legitimacy to the whole thing.
Second, my friend being in London unbeknownst to me is fairly likely. He’s travelled internationally on short notice (three different jobs have sent him to Abu Dhabi three different times) - hell, he’s lived in both Nuremberg and England for several months at times. So the idea of him being in London didn’t make me bat an eye.
The email I got didn’t have terrible grammar like the typical scam does. Full of run-on sentences and missing a few punctuation marks - but my friend isn’t exactly an english major either. So in a hurried state of mind, its plausible.
Finally, the whole ‘tear in my eye’ bit. Even though noone accused my friend of having great english skills, he still will often write with a little bit of attempted literary flair. Of all things, that phrase made me most think ‘This could very well be true - it sounds like him’.
Two thoughts crossed my mind that made me question it, though. One - why would he be emailing me and not his wife? For a normal person, that’d be an obvious red flag. Not necessarily the case with my friend - it is not uncommon for him to email me a random thing about something #$(*ed up in his life. Sometimes he just likes to vent.
Second - why bother emailing me at all? My friend is a very resourceful guy and he’s not afraid to do whatever he needs to do to get help.
In the end, I just replied to the email, providing my cell phone number and said to call me if he needed anything. There was just enough ‘hmmm, sounds odd’ and just enough ‘hmm, this actually seems like it might be legit’ to make me figure I should at least respond.
A couple weeks later he informed me of the real story of what happened.