I keep hearing the same kinds of stereotypes associated with obese people; they drive rather than walk, they eat nothing but chips and soda, they all use some kind of excuse to make no attempts to do something about their weight problems, they would rather watch (insert any TV show here) than work out, etc. Maybe instead of ‘fat jokes’ the real question has to do with the acceptabilty of maintaining stereotypes…? Exactly how many ‘normal sized’ people do you see driving cars instead of walking? How many do you see eating chips and soda? How about watching TV? Do you honestly think that normal sized people don’t watch TV or eat chips or drive cars when they probably could walk?
If someone is clinically depressed and practices self-mutilation, what is the real problem here? The self-mutilation, or the depression? Obviously both are problems, but one stems from the other. Likewise, it may be that a number of contributing factors lead to overeating. It might be simple ignorance of proper nutritional choices. In those cases, education might be enough to help people make the right kinds of changes. However, I don’t think that there is any one ‘right’ way to combat obesity’s underlying causes.
When I was 320 pounds, I was out playing basketball, often fullcourt games (not just ‘shooting around’) every day as long as it wasn’t raining and there was no snow on the ground. I would ride my bike the three mile distance from my apartment to the courts, too. I ate meals mostly at restaraunts because I was (and still am) a lousy cook, but I almost never ordered dessert; I was a meat-and-potatoes guy mostly, and the Italian side of me liked pasta as well. However, restaraunts routinely serve 2 or sometimes 3 or more standard portions of food with each meal. This is something I only really realized as I was attending counseling sessions; portion control in the hands of restaraunts plus constantly eating out equals an excess of calories, even if you eat only three meals a day. When I moved to Rochester, MN and couldn’t find any nearby courts, my exercise level dropped and my weight went up.
I can (and did) lose as much as 45 pounds with an extended period of strict dieting and exercise, but here’s the real kicker for me and for many people that have a LOT of weight to lose; it’s not hard to exert willpower for a month or two or even three, but in order to lose enough weight to be ‘normal-sized’, many people would need to maintain that strict level of diet and exercise for over a year. I don’t know if any of you have tried to restrict your eating for a full year, but it’s pretty damned hard to maintain motivation for over a year while you watch everyone around you pretty much enjoying their food with no ill effects, and sometimes weeks go by with no weight loss or even a slight gain despite your best efforts. Keep in mind also that you can’t just ‘quit eating’ cold turkey like some people can quit drinking or quit smoking; you still need to eat no matter what your goals are. All sorts of bad food choices are readily available, and even the better food choices are often supplied in excess.
All in all, I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that most people who think that weight loss for obese people should be as simple as ‘put down the chips and take a hike’ are ignorant of the complexity of the obesity problem. I may be wrong, but I suspect that the majority of people with that attitude have never been significantly overweight themselves, have never had to struggle with the complex social and psychological impact that being overweight brings.