I was baptised into the Episcopalean church. Grew up in it, did confirmation classes, studied hard, was confirmed in my mid-teens. Lost all faith soon after. I still retained some vague woolly new-agey theistic feeling (rather than belief) but this slowly evaporated as I travelled the world. The more time I spent in different cultures, the more I realised that each group of followers believes as fervently as any other that their way is right. The final nail in the coffin of religion for me was the day I visited a temple in South Vietnam where there was a religion founded to worship a statue that had been found on top of a hill in the 1950s. It was not far from the Cao Dai temple where they worship Victor Hugo. And it struck me that day that the people of the world will worship pretty much anything.
This left me with the following mutually exclusive conclusions:[ol][li]There’s some supernatural thingy out there that all religions are worshipping in their own way[/li][li]One religion is right and all the others are wrong[/li][li]All religions are wrong[/ol]I note that liberals of most religions take point #1 as being closest to the truth. However, fundamentalists of those religions take point #2 as being closest to the truth. The liberal religious would therefore reject “truth” #2. Which makes point #1 as fundamental as point #2. This paradox, and the lack of any concrete evidence (in my eyes) for anything supernatural, leads me strongly to point #3. And that people tend to be able to argue the toss about the religion that, for the most part, they worship as an accident of birth (geography, lineage)… sure, it might be divinely inspired that you happen to be a [whatever] follower, but don’t you think it’s a little coincidental that it’s the faith of your forefathers…?[/li]
These boards have mellowed me in my attitude towards religion, and my respect for (liberal) religious followers has increased; I also think there’s a lot of wisdom in many religious teachings from which the non-faithful can learn. But I do find it difficult to comprehend how people can believe in it.