It seems the sperm is only partially responsible for the gender of the offspriing. That is, chromosomally it determines gender, but a myriad of variables affects which sperm will fertilize the egg.
There’s actually quite a bias in favor of male conception, for reasons which are largely unknown. 62.5% of conceptions are male, and 53% of live births are male. This may have to do with faster male sperm and people who are trying to conceive having intercourse right near ovulation. (We talked about this a little bit near the end of this thread.) It may have to do with barrier methods that are fail near ovulation due to the mechanical and chemical changes within the woman’s reproductive tract. It may be some more scientific explanation of: nature “knows” males are more fragile and likely to die in utero or as infants and so has made provisions to skew conception toward males. It’s also likely that the excellent prenatal care and nutrition so many women recieve nowadays is saving baby boys that 100 years ago would have miscarried. The old 50:50 model, while still taught in high school biology, is patently false when investigated more closely.
There are plenty of theories that the diet of the man is just as important as the diet of the woman in gender selection. Most of them are of questionable scientific validity, though anecdotal support can be substantial.
While I can’t find a cite, there are apparently studies showing that men who work with toxic chemicals more often father girls. One study in particular was done looking at offspring of male anesthesiologists and showed a notable bias towards girls. (It’s mentioned in Taking Charge of Your Fertility, but not cited.)
Also, here’s an agonizingly long article here detailing the scientific research behind the oft-noted factiod that poor women tend to have more girls and wealthier women more boys. Although many people see this as due to nutrition, prenatal care and stress (again, with baby boys being more fragile and not surviving a tougher pregnancy as often), these authors have found evidence that even *conception * of females is oddly higher in lower income women. “…research has shown that a more resource-rich prospective environment translates to a son bias, whereas a lack of such prospective environment translates to a daughter bias (Mackey, 1993; Mackey & Coney, 1987; Mealey & Mackey, 1990; Teitelbaum, 1970; Teitelbaum & Mantel, 197 1; cf, Gangestad & Simpson, 1990; Grant, 1994; see Chahnazarian, 1988 for a review of the literature). See Grant (1994), Gualtieri, Hicks, & Mayo (1984), Guerrero (1975), Harlap (1979), and James (1986, 1987, 1992) for candidates for proximate mechanisms (e.g., hormone levels and psychological types) that bias the human sex ratio, generally at the level of conception (the primary sex ratio).”