Not, who gets to have their arms on top of them, but whether passengers have a right to insist they be raised/remain in place?
Recently I took a shortish flight. I was seated in a window seat, and the man in the middle seat beside me was extremely large. I mean, in all ways: tall, broad-shouldered, and overweight. Picture a professional football player who has retired and put on at least an extra hundred pounds.
Almost the moment he arrived he raised the arm rest between us and his mass sort of flowed over into my seat. Even when I shifted to pressing myself against the wall of the plane, his thigh & torso was pushing firmly against me.
I found this very unpleasant. Both physically (I was having to sit with my back crooked) and psychologically. I’m not a touchy-feely type person, and having a total stranger press his body against mine that way felt intrusive.
I asked him to put the arm rest back down (I couldn’t just do it myself, his back completely covered it) and he refused, saying he couldn’t sit there with it down.
This might have been true (well, evidently it was, he was simply too wide for the seat) but it doesn’t seem like I should have had to suffer because HE had a problem due to his extreme size.
Since the flight was only going to be about 90 minutes more I let it go and suffered in silence. (And for hours after that, my back was really screwed up from sitting twisted to one side for so long.)
But since then I’ve been wondering: if I’d appealed to a stewardess, would I have gotten any help? I mean, I’d paid for the use of a seat of whatever width it was, but I was only getting to use maybe 75 or 80% of it.
Did I have a right to insist that the arm rest remain in place to serve as a barrier to his encroachment? Or did he have a right to insist that the arm rest be removed so he could gain the extra space he required?
Is there any type of law about this?
I’m guessing not, but maybe the airlines themselves have rules? If so, I’d love to know which ones come down on the side of the ‘arm rests stay down’ person. In July I will have to fly coast-to-coast, and I absolutely would choose to patronize an airline that would protect me from this kind of intrusion.