First, I apologize if the article was paywalled. One can sign up for a free month of scribd to read it, but it is about one person’s experiences. Here is a summary.
The author had parents with mental illness, spent time in foster care and being unhoused. She won a contest writing essays on self-reliance, got to meet Clarence Thomas and Condoleeza Rice, and [the winners] were touted as proof anyone can make it in the United States given the limitless possibilities of free enterprise. She won full scholarship to Harvard. She finds her ideas as a teenager, that success or failure were up to her alone, well described by Alissa Quart in her new book Bootstrapped.
“According to Quart, the fiction that anyone who works hard can have a better life increases inequality and promotes policies that hurt us. Meanwhile, blaming people for their supposedly bad choices is “a kind of nationwide bullying” that the poor internalize.” [She thinks some conservative policies, and politicians like DeSantis may be really against poverty].
”Quart then points out a number of cracks in our collective myth of self-sufficiency. While Henry David Thoreau stayed at Walden Pond—for many, the mecca of American individualism—his mother did his laundry. Ayn Rand, patron saint of libertarians, collected Social Security near the end of her life. Even Horatio Alger’s novels aren’t tales of genuine independence: In most, a wealthy benefactor steps in…”
”The belief that underprivileged teens can study hard, prove their worth, and access higher education thanks to charitable largesse also seems more and more like a fable. Donors disproportionately give to elite schools with massive endowments. Only 1.5 percent…of the total sum contributed goes to two-year colleges [with the highest rates of upward mobility].”
”I swelled with pride when my application essay for the scholarship, in which I compared my life to that of the Horatio Alger Award recipient Buzz Aldrin, delivered me into a State Department dining room…. And when things went wrong, I blamed myself—when I was raped…when I didn’t have a place to stay…when I went nearly broke from a mouthful of root canal… I’d bought into the intoxicating fiction that I was the master of my fate. When it turned out I wasn’t, the failure felt personal.”
”By the time I graduated from [Harvard], my shame that I wasn’t a smiling overcomer became unbearable… [Quart] proposes commonsense changes to improve the social safety net, most of which are extensions of COVID-era policies: expanding the child tax credit, making recertification for Medicaid less onerous, and reducing administrative hurdles to seeking help. Just as important, Bootstrapped urges readers to rethink their narratives of accomplishment. Quart encourages us to stop shaming others, and ourselves, for needing assistance and to acknowledge the ways we are all interdependent.”