Are there love songs that don't focus on appearance? (To women, particularly)

Bob Dylan, “Love Minus Zero/No Limit”:

My love, she speaks like silence
Without ideals or violence
She doesn’t have to say she’s faithful
Yet she’s true like ice, like fire
People carry roses
And make promises by the hour
My love she laughs like the flowers
Valentines can’t buy her

Cat Stevens, “Hard Headed Woman”:

I’m looking for a hard headed woman
One who will take me for myself
And if I find my hard headed woman
I won’t need nobody else

Lovin’ Spoonful, “Darling Be Home Soon”:

Come
And talk of all the things we did today
Here
And laugh about our funny little ways…
…My darling be home soon
It’s not just these few hours but I’ve been waiting since I toddled
For the great relief of having you to talk to

Sugar Magnolia by the Grateful Dead

Up on Cripple Creek by the Band

My Girl by the Temptations doesn’t mention appearance.

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Sugar Magnolia by the Grateful Dead/QUOTE]

That reminds me of another Dead song, “Scarlet Begonias”:

“She wore scarlet begonias tucked into her curls
I knew right away she was not like other girls”

One of my favorite couplets in popular music.

On The Street Where You Live.

The Way You Do the Things You Do by the Temptations

As pretty as you are
You know you could have been a flower
Your good looks was a minute
You know that you could have been an hour
The way you stole my heart
You know you could have been a cuckoo
And baby you’re so smart
You know you could have been a schoolbook
Well you could have been anything that you want to
And I can tell
The way you do the things you do

It doesn’t focus on looks but they are a component.

The Magnetic Fields, “Asleep and Dreaming”:

You may not be beautiful
It’s not for me to judge
I don’t know if you’re beautiful
Because I love you too much

Off the same album, there is ‘The World’

“You think you’re one of millions but you’re one in a million to me
When you wonder if you matter, baby, look into my eyes
And tell me, can’t you see
You’re everything to me”

Yeah, but it doesn’t mention anything else, either. Love the song, but it’s all about how she makes him feel and nothing about what it is about her that makes him feel that way in the first place.

Sting, “Fields of Gold”

Will you stay with me, will you be my love
Among the fields of barley
Well forget the sun in his jealous sky
As we lie in the fields of gold

The only hint about the woman’s appearance is that she has long hair.

Several songs from Wilco.

I Got You (At The End of the Century)

I got you and that’s all I need
I got you

I got you and I still believe
That you are all I will ever need
It’s you, oh

All the way back in the seventies
You were my little TV queen
Your Tarzan and your friend Janine
I got you

I got you and I still believe
That you are all I will ever need
It’s you, oh

Reservations
I’m bound by these choices so hard to make
I’m bound by the feeling so easy to fake
None of this is real
Enough to take me from you

Oh I’ve got reservations
About so many things
But not about you

I know this isn’t what you were wanting me to say
How can I get closer and be further away
When the truth
Proves it’s beautiful to lie

Either Way
Maybe you still love me
Maybe you don’t
Either you will or you won’t
Maybe you just need some time alone
I will try to understand
Everything has its plan
Either way
I’m gonna stay
Right for you

You and I
Oh, I don’t want to know
And you don’t need to know
That much about me

You and I
We might be strangers
However close we get sometimes
It’s like we never met

But you and I
I think we can take it
All the good with the bad
Make something that no one else has

You and I

In the psychedelic era, the mind’s eye saw beyond mere earthly beauty…

Love’s “She Comes in Colors”
Whoa-oh-oh-oh my love she comes in colors
You can tell her from the clothes she wears.

The Stones used the same phrase in “She’s Like a Rainbow”–on their best-forgotten Their Satanic Majesties.

Texas’s own 13th Floor Elevators sang “She Lives in a Time of Her Own”
Her eyes breathe light, reflect the aura of her hair
She sends, attends, behind an alpha stare
She seeks the stars and spirals up the stair
She lives in a time of her own

Not exactlly “five foot two, eyes of blue.”

While it does focus on appearance, Spinal Tap’s Big Bottom doesn’t exactly highlight classical attractiveness, with such gems as:

and:

:slight_smile:

But one of his senses is sight.

That was the first one to come to my mind. What a great song. I happened to hear a particularly kick ass version of it at the Furthur show last Sunday.

Only the greatest love song ever!! Tupelo Honey.

And there’s always Whole Lotta Rosie:

Wanna tell you a story
‘Bout a woman I know
When it comes to lovin’
Oh, she steals the show
She ain’t exactly pretty
She ain’t exactly small
42-39-56
You could say she’s got it ALLLLLL!!!

Oh, sorry, I see, it’s all about physical attraction (a special one …) :wink:

My husband and I had “Something Changed” as one of wedding songs. It’s a love song but it never mentions looks.

It’s not that it doesn’t focus on appearance, but it kinda looks at the other side of it:

AC/DC: Whole Lotta Rosie

She ain’t exactly pretty
Ain’t exactly small
Forty-two, thirty-nine, fifty-six
You could say she’s got it all!

Sorry, Einstein beat me to it…