The Ten Commandments are not at the core of my belief system. I don’t have a problem with them as representing important teachings for one individual to adopt as God’s demands on his own ethical system. People who don’t put Britney Spears, the Pittsburgh Steelers, System of a Down, A+F clothes, or something else ahead of ethical treatment of other people, are always good to have around. People who do not use God’s name to harm others or misrepresent the truth, should be commended for it. People who take time themselves to rest, relax, get in tune with the world about them and its Creator, and who give those who work for them the same opportunity, likewise deserve praise. People who show respect for their parents, people who refrain from taking the life of another outside the law, people who do not cheat on their marriage vows, people who do not steal, cheat, con others out of their property, people who will not lie to harm another, people who are not jealous of another’s prosperity – these are good people.
People who, on the other hand, set up the Ten Commandments as an idol, are prepared to use God’s name in vain to defend doing so, who bear false witness against their fellow man on account of his beliefs, his sexuality, etc., people who attempt to legislate their view of God’s will as binding on others and who arrogate to themselves the right to judge others – these people are breaking those commandments as surely as those they judge.
What is at the core of my belief system is Jesus’s Summary of the Law (cf. Matthew 22:34-40), the Golden Rule (Matthew 7:12), the New Commandment (John 13:34), the need to practice non-judgmentalism (Matthew 7:1-2) and compassionate behavior towards others (Matthew 25:31-46) and how they apply in one’s daily life.
Perhaps this is not the yes-or-no answer you were looking for. But it’s the one that accurately reflects my views.