People can want anything. It’s when they don’t get everything they want, whether or not it’s reasonable (and yes, I think the world is in the process of showing Americans that $2/gallon gas is reasonable, don’t you?), whether or not the rest of the planet gets the same thing, and whine about it to anyone who will listen, that I have a problem.
You think the rest of the world doesn’t work hard and try to give their kids a good life?
I don’t live in the city, either (though I did for most of the past 20 years, until a month ago) - I live in the suburbs. But I live near public transportation. And I wish more people did the same, and am willing to devote a larger proportion of tax dollars, and even more tax dollars in absolute, to make that happen. I’d sure rather spend money on more buses and trains than on blowing up Iraq.
If you’ve earned the ability to do that, sure, you absolutely can. And in return, I can think your lifestyle is a ridiculously nauseating waste of resources.
However, a large part of the whining about high fuel prices has been on the part of people who made conscious choices to live that way, and are now having to make sacrifices because economic conditions changed. Sorry, if your choices had so little financial wiggle room built into them that a $1/gallon increase in one minority component of your budget is leaving you unable to afford groceries, then you were living just a little too close to the edge. And if you made these choices not out of pure economic necessity (the job with the 60-mile RT commute was the only one you could get, or similar), but because you wanted to live in a manner that was, in the end, beyond your means, no, I’m not going to feel sorry for you.
Although that’s also true, it’s far from my only reason - it’s just plain irresponsible, economically and socially, regardless of its effect on the environment. And it’s just plain selfish to think we can expect more for less than the rest of the planet gets.