Assholes, the jealous, and mediocretins. Cemetary Savior, spoke-, Fessie, Treis, etc

[fessie]

Now that I see your reply…

What’s stupid about this, you stupid fucking fuck, is that I most definitely agree that school IS difficult for bright kids. Get that? It’s hell for people who don’t fit into the middle of the bell curve.

That wasn’t the point of the argument.

In fact, if you hadn’t been behaving like such an ass, I would’ve agreed with you in blasting egalitarianism.

Instead you kept returning to defend your initial post, as if it had been TOPICAL which it was NOT.

See, look, it’s right here:::::::::::::

Quote:
Originally Posted by FinnAgain
Second, what exactly is ironic about pointing out the fact that some of the concerns raised were valid?
Ooh! Ooh! I know the answer to this one!

Because you were using your post as an excuse for an egotistical boast about your own early genius, and to get in a way-too-early boast about your presumptively precocious children?

In other words, because you were being an egotistical braggart of exactly the sort we were discussing?

~checks~
Nope, I wasn’t. I was using an example of how their concerns were valid **(hint: this is where you missed the point)**and how it can be rough. There’s a huge difference between a statement of fact and bragging. Nor would I feel a need to boast about my future children, but again it’s a statement of fact that nature, or nurture, would both play the same role.

Just because what I say makes you feel inferior, doesn’t mean I’m trying to be superior.

Quote:
Originally Posted by spoke-
In other words, because you were being an egotistical braggart of exactly the sort we were discussing?
By the way asshole, if you think I’d be bragging about the time I graduated highschool or my scores on tests, you’re a fucking moron. I don’t expect any Dopers to give me more respect based on some rather arbitrary scores in high school. If my posting style doesn’t win me the respect of my peers, than pointing out the awards I’ve gotten over the years sure wouldn’t do it.

Try not to let your jealousy overwhelm your rational functions, eh spunky? <—here’s where you started being a total ass

[Skywatcher]

@fessie

The point of the OP was that those parents’ concerns WEREN’T valid. They were silly.

This is true. However, if the kid really does end up graduating a year or two early, there could be problems. That’s what Finn was pointing out.

[Miller]

@fessie

@FinnAgain

I was using an example of how their concerns were valid and how it can be rough. There’s a huge difference between a statement of fact and bragging.

NO NO NO NO NO NO

The point of the OP was that those parents’ concerns WEREN’T valid. They were silly.

And so are you.

How many times do you need people to point out that Finn already acknowledged and apologized for that? Bringing it up as often as you have here is pretty tacky.

Also, please figure out how to use the quote tags. It’s very hard to follow your posts without them, when you’re extensively qouting other posters.

[treis]

@wring

however, to expand on Miller’s excellent point, in a written medium, where one’s tongue in cheek isn’t necessarily apparent, unless the object of the ‘good natured ribbing’ is a pal and realizes that it is, indeed ‘good natured ribbing’, then easily misinterpretations of tone happen. when it’s apparent that one’s tone was misinterpreted, the best tactic to take is to say "sorry, was only joking, sorry it wasn’t clear’, vs Nelsonesque “ha-ha”. YMMV.

Granted but lets be honest here we are talking about an Alanis Morrisete reference on a board known for making quips about the littlest of mistakes. ** Finnagain ** siezed on that to steal a great analogy from ** Cemetery Savior ** like a terrier with a bath towel. He grabbed it and worked himself into a tizzy flinging insults over an innocent quip. It was only after that initial outburts that other posters commented on him being an asshole.

He should have done what I am doing now shrugging my shoulders and ignoring the insults. Notice how this will be much more effective then blowing up and starting another pit thread.

@Miller

I understand your argument. I don’t agree with it. “Good natured ribbing” isn’t something you do with people who don’t know you well enough to understand your good nature. Acting like that to strangers makes you look like an asshole.

I get what your saying too but this board would be a lot duller if people didn’t make quips about strangers. It happens all the time and its not something to get worked up about.

[FinnAgain]

@fessie

It still mystifies me that someone who departs a thread with a flourish and fanfare would bother to continue monitoring the discussion. Perhaps he was waiting to see if treis would respond to his bait? You say that you apologized & the case was closed, but that’s actually a lie -

No… that’s not a lie. You’re an idiot.
I apologized, my apology was accepted.
I thought the case was closed, and I was fully prepared to simply lurk and continue reading the thread.
Then other folks brought it up again, and I responded to them.

I wasn’t posting in the thread, and I wasn’t going to continue the tangent I’d brought up. Then folks decided to lay into me. Lo and behold, I responded.

@fessie

You used this opportunity to return the subject to your own presumably bright self.

No you freaking moron! I used the opportunity to return the subject to the fact that the concerns I raised were valid and childhood can be rough! Good gods!
That’s what the text says. That’s what I said from the beginning. And you’re a fucking fool if you think I was bragging about my intelligence after what, half a dozen disclaimers that I wasn’t?

@fessie

The point of the OP was that those parents’ concerns WEREN’T valid. They were silly.

Listen you braindead husk, the concerns were valid, people in this thread, in the course of attacking me, have admitted as much. Yes, sometimes children catch shit for being smart. Yes, it’s hard to be the parent of a child who is being picked on. If you think these concerns aren’t valid, I don’t know what to say to you other than, at this point: fuck you you dumb bitch.

@fessie

And so are you.

It’s ok honey, go back to being proud about your spelling.

[Miller]

@treis

I get what your saying too but this board would be a lot duller if people didn’t make quips about strangers. It happens all the time and its not something to get worked up about.

It’d also be a lot duller if people didn’t get worked up about it.

[FinnAgain]

Just to make this crystal clear:

Bringing up that some parents concerns were valid, in the context of Pitting another message board culture, was off topic and I apologized.
The fact that some parents might’ve had valid concerns is accurate, but not in the context of that Pitting, and I already apologized for it.

Thank you.

[Skywatcher]

@treis

Granted but lets be honest here we are talking about an Alanis Morrisete reference on a board known for making quips about the littlest of mistakes. ** Finnagain ** siezed on that to steal a great analogy from ** Cemetery Savior ** like a terrier with a bath towel.

After CS started rubbing Finn’s nose in it.

[Try_As_I_Might]

@FinnAgain

No you freaking moron!
And you’re a fucking fool
Listen you braindead husk,
fuck you you dumb bitch.
It’s ok honey, go back to being proud about your spelling.

And the recipient for the award for uninentional irony award now is awarded the Most Gratuitous Use of the Word Belgium Award.

That’s quite a vocabulary you have.

[you_with_the_face]

First off, I thought someone was “whooshed” when they’ve interpreted a literal meaning from a sarcastic comment. So I’m not getting how anyone could have been whooshed by that OP, when it’s clear to anyone actually reading it that the OP is venting about bragging and competitiveness.

Secondly, I didn’t find FinnAgain’s post as being especially braggadocious upon first reading it. But on second reading, I did see the humorous point that others made about its unintended irony. I think what did it was the fact that he provided a whole list of exhibits testifying to high intelligence, instead of just saying “I was a smart kid and had a hard time because it.” ::shrug::

Thirdly, I don’t get why treis is being pitted. His comment is no more begging for scientific support than FinnAgain’s belief that his brilliance made him a target for ridicule, and neither was it an attack against FinnAgain. I actually agree with treis. I was a bit of a brainaic growing up and I wasn’t exactly Miss Popularity; but I attribute that to me being introverted and reserved, not because polysyllabic words fluidly roll off my tongue. And I have a heard time believing that all the smart kids at FinnAgain’s school faced mistreatment unless they put on a dumb act. Some kids get targetted by the spit-ball squad because–let’s face it–they are just plain annoying. But intelligence, in and of itself, is rarely annoying.

Fourthly, a question for FinnAgain: is this the first time at the SDMB that posters have accused you of acting in an intellectually superior or snobbish way? If not…well, it’s something to think about.

[Bippy_the_Beardless]

@FinnAgain

Yes yes Bippy, you’re certainly the first person to make that claim! :smack:
Mind backing it up?

As of yet, all I did was post an anecdote, and was attacked for it. Explain to me why exactly that makes me some sort of bad person?

Oh, and, by the way, I wasn’t unpopular, I had a large circle of friends, but there were still a lot of vile little children who did their best to be hurtful simply because of my intellect. But I’m sure you were at school with me, so you can speak to just what the problems were, right?

Wanna try for a new hypothesis?

Lets have a quick poll:

Who thinks FinnAgain is coming accross as a friendly pleasant individual in his messages within this thread and the other?

If you don’t think so, do you find it is his intelligence (which I don’t doubt) that causes you to feel this way?

[Jackmannii]

Assholes, the jealous, and mediocretins.

What is…a spaghetti western directed by Ingmar Bergman?
Do I win the Daily Double, Alex?

[Skywatcher]

@Bippy the Beardless

Who thinks FinnAgain is coming accross as a friendly pleasant individual in his messages within this thread and the other?

Yes, when he’s not being flamed.

If you don’t think so, do you find it is his intelligence (which I don’t doubt) that causes you to feel this way?

Invalid question. This ain’t high school.

[FinnAgain]

@fessie

I most definitely agree that school IS difficult for bright kids. Get that? It’s hell for people who don’t fit into the middle of the bell curve.

And you’re being a royal bitch… why exactly?

@fessie

That wasn’t the point of the argument.

Yah mean… I was whooshed and apologized for it? Nawwwwwww.
Dumb bitch.

@fessie

In fact, if you hadn’t been behaving like such an ass, I would’ve agreed with you in blasting egalitarianism.

Yeah, responding to attacks, what an ass I am!
Fuck you too you cowardly bitch.

@fessie

Instead you kept returning to defend your initial post, as if it had been TOPICAL which it was NOT.

No you dumb bitch, I was defending myself against claims that I was being an elitist, or a braggart, etc… And yes, for some parents, having inteligent children is a concern, especially with regards to bullying. That is topical, but I was perfectly willing to let it drop so the thread could focus on the other message board’s culture.

@fessie

See, look, it’s right here:::::::::::::

Example:
<quote=dumb bitch> blah blah blah nothing of imporatance. </quote>

Try quote tags, they work.

@fessie

Because you were using your post as an excuse for an egotistical boast about your own early genius, and to get in a way-too-early boast about your presumptively precocious children?

Listen you old fat whore, I wasn’t boasting about my brain power. I was simply pointing out that it’s sometimes a valid concern.. If you weren’t so busy being a royal piece of shit, you’d notice that you’d agreed with me in the start of this very post. Fucking moron.

Oh, and, by the way, it’s not boasting to point out that smart people who value learning tend to bring up smart children. That’s just a fact. I wonder why this whole fighting ignorance thing is taking longer than we thought. Got any clues?

@fessie

In other words, because you were being an egotistical braggart of exactly the sort we were discussing?

Except, fool, I wasn’t?
You’ve already agreed that life can be rough for the very intelligent. Or is it bragging when I do it, but not when you do?

[QUOTE=fessie]

Nope, I wasn’t. I was using an example of how their concerns were valid **(hint: this is where you missed the point)**and how it can be rough. There’s a huge difference between a statement of fact and bragging. Nor would I feel a need to boast about my future children, but again it’s a statement of fact that nature, or nurture, would both play the same role.

So in other words, once I start responding to people in kind, I become a total ass. Whatever.

Just to clarify, since evidently you’re about as good at quoting as you are at reading:

My initial point, while valid, was off topic and I apologized and was forgiven.
I was then attacked for all sorts of things, being a braggart, being socially maladjusted and blaming it on my intellect (thanks treis, you coward), etc… I then responded to the insults, and argued that my initial point was still valid, and that a lot of smart kids do have to put up with shit for it. Maybe I shouldn’t have responded to the factual challenges and only slung insults back, ah well.

[FinnAgain]

@Try As I Might...

And the recipient for the award for uninentional irony award now is awarded the Most Gratuitous Use of the Word Belgium Award.

That’s quite a vocabulary you have.

Ah, now I get snark directed at me for the way in which I go about flaming back.
Wanna critique my spelling next?

Sorry, next time I flame people back, I’ll check the thesaurus.

[Skywatcher]

Hmm…does Gaudere’s Law cover vB tags?

[Miller]

@Bippy the Beardless

Lets have a quick poll:

Who thinks FinnAgain is coming accross as a friendly pleasant individual in his messages within this thread and the other?

In this thread? No, he comes across as justifiably pissed off. In the other thread? Sure, until people started insulting him for no reason. After that, we get back to the “justifiably pissed” thing.

If you don’t think so, do you find it is his intelligence (which I don’t doubt) that causes you to feel this way?

No, obviously, but this is a disingenuous question, as the SDMB is not a high school, and intellect is not ostracized here.

[Try_As_I_Might]

@FinnAgain

Ah, now I get snark directed at me for the way in which I go about flaming back.
Wanna critique my spelling next?

Sorry, next time I flame people back, I’ll check the thesaurus.

Whatever, if you want, reply to my prevous post in which I was wondering if we had a definitional disagreement. You seemed to miss that attempt to resolve our disagreement in your haste to slap down as much name-calling as you can.

[fessie]

You know, Miller, typically I really like you. But I think you’re defending someone who isn’t worth it.

[Spoke]

The plot so far:

1. A thread is started pitting insufferable braggarts.
2. Finn posts some insufferable bragging in the thread.
3. Several posters note the irony.
4. Finn apologizes “for being whooshed.” (Not for the ironic bragging, which he seems not to recognize.)
5. Cemetery’s post again points out the irony (still unacknowledged by Finn).
6. Finn responds with an “Irony? What irony?” post. Still doesn’t get it.
7. I spell out the irony.
8. Finn has a meltdown.