I watched a movie yesterday called Ladies in Black. It’s sweet, charming, and pretty much nothing happens. It’s set in a big department store in Sydney, Australia, in 1959, and you get a good look at department store culture. The title refers to the requirement that the female sales personnel wear black while on the floor.
It got me thinking about a big department store where I worked during college in the 1960s. When I first started there, the salesladies were indeed required to wear black. Later that changed, but for years, the female staff were still not allowed to wear slacks-- even a nice pantsuit wasn’t permitted. (But then at my college, women were not allowed to wear slacks anywhere on campus except in your room or on the playing field. That rule was changed in the fall of 1969.)
But I digress. In those days, before even the heyday of malls, a visit to the big department store was An Event. The ladies of the house might even have gotten dressed up with heels, hats, and gloves before venturing downtown. The visit was extra special at Christmas time, when the windows would be decorated, and there was likely a Toy Wonderland somewhere in the store that let to Santa and a chance to reveal your Christmas wishes. Even those too young to experience this will have seen it in *Miracle on 34th Street. *
There were usually several restaurants on the premises, including at least one Ladies’ Tea Room, which featured delicate chicken, avocado, mayonnaise-type dishes for the sensitive palates of the fairer sex. Not that those ladies didn’t light up their Virginia Slims and puff away as soon as the coffee arrived-- in demitasse cups, of course.
There was a festive air for the staff, too. If you had worked there long enough, you knew lots of people-- it was a village within the complex of departments, storerooms, elevators, escalators, basements… with all the attendant politics, romances (illicit and otherwise), parties, sad departures, etc.
It took only a generation for all this to be displaced by malls, which are themselves now practically obsolete. Hey-- I’m the queen of online shopping. I get amazon deliveries several times a week. But sometimes I think of “going downtown” to do Christmas shopping… and I miss it.